Passing Tips for FTM Transgender Men

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The life of a FTM Transgender Men can be very difficult, especially if they don’t pass as male. If you don’t pass as a male, going out in public can be overwhelmingly challenging and intimidating. When someone who is trying to be polite refers to you as “ma’am,” it can be detrimental to your efforts to embrace your masculinity. Below are some tips to help you pass as male in public. While these tips may not fix everything, they will at least decrease the chances of being referred to as “ma’am.”

Wear Clothes Made for Men

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One of the easiest and simplest ways of passing as a male is by wearing male clothes. Unlike female clothes that are designed to highlight curves, men’s clothing tends to be straighter and hides curves. If your body is curvy, wearing male clothes can help you hide your curves. In particular, straight cut pants from the men’s department can help create a flatter behind.

You should try to dress more conservatively that you might have before. This will help you to avoid being mistaken for a lesbian. Simply choose a male image you want to project and cultivate a look to suit that image.

Even out Your Chest

The chest is one of the areas that gives many FTM Transgender Guys a headache. This is because it is very hard to pass as a male when you have a curvy chest. If your chest does protrude, you should invest in a good binder to flatten it. Binding your chest flattens it and gives you a masculine appearance. There are multiple types, so you must do some research and choose the binding methodology that suits you best.

As a side point, binding yourself tightly for too long might be harmful because it causes rib and back pain. It is important to use moderation and give yourself a break from binding occasionally. Also, never use tape or elastic bandages when binding your chest

Get a Hair Cut

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Long hair can have a negative impact on the male image you want to project. If you currently have medium length or long hair, it would be wise to consider a haircut. A good haircut that will certainly help you project a male image. Typical male hairstyles involve keeping your hair short in the back and on the sides.

It is often said that barbers do a much better job at providing a male haircut compared to hairdressers. However, it would be wise to try them both and see which one works better for you. You should not, however, under any circumstances take a pair of scissors and try to do the work yourself. Get a professional haircut, and it will be worth every penny.

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Tips for Before, During, and After the First Date with a Transgender Woman

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After your long search for a transgender girlfriend finally bears fruit, your next move should be to ask her out on a date. Of course, you want to make sure that you impress her during the first date, but this is also the easiest time to mess things up. To boost your chances of a second date, you must do some pre-date planning and preparation. Getting things right during the first date will certainly impress your transgender girlfriend. Below are some valuable tips that will help you have a successful first date.

Give Her Options for the Date Venue

Before the date, you should show your transgender girlfriend that you are thoughtful. Giving her a few options for the date venue will show her that you want her to be comfortable on your first date. Ideally you would come up with at least three options and let her decide which one is most convenient. As a side note, make sure you choose places relatively near her residence so that she feels safe.

Stay Within Your Budget

As a gentleman, you are expected to pay for the first date. Therefore, when you choose the date venues, make sure it is a place you can afford. There is no need to go overboard on a first date; it is reasonable to stay within a comfortable budget. After you have created some rapport with your transgender girlfriend, don’t be ashamed to tell her that you have a limited budget. While you shouldn’t expect her to foot the bill on your first date, you can split the bill or alternate paying for each other later.

Remember Your Chats

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To keep the conversation rolling, you should always try to keep the content of previous chats in the back of your mind. This will help you know which topics your transgender girlfriend is comfortable talking about. If you do want to try a new topic, make sure that it is an interesting one. As a rule of thumb, avoid subjects that are controversial or very personal on the first date, like sex, as they might send a wrong signal to your partner or make her feel uncomfortable.

Ask for a Second Date

If the first date goes well, don’t hesitate to tell your transgender women that you would really love to see her again. If she enjoyed your company too, she would definitely say yes. Being interesting and a little mysterious is a good way to make her want to know you more. It is also important that you make her laugh.

Ask Her to Text You When She Gets Home

Asking her to shoot you a quick text letting you know she got home safely is a quick, easy gesture that tells her that you genuinely care. You can also use this opportunity to thank her for the date and wish her good night.

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How to Display Male Body Language for FTM Transgender Male

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People are very good at reading body language. They can tell whether you are confidence about yourself or if you are tense and nervous just by looking at you. Additionally, male and female body language has some distinct differences in style. As a result, it is important to know what kind of body language is attractive as a FTM transgender male. If you understand and practice attractive body language techniques, you will not only build your confidence but also enjoy an unrivaled masculine image.

Understanding what constitutes as male body language and knowing the influence it has on other people can be very advantageous, particularly when you are dealing with women. If you want a woman to find you irresistibly attractive, then you must know how to project attractive male body language. However, it is worth mentioning that body language is only part of the equation. You must also develop an attractive personality. Below are some tips that will teach you how to display attractive male body language.

Have Good Posture

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Although it may sound cliché, good posture is the first step to having attractive male body language. As a FTM trans guy, it is important to have a good body posture because it creates an aura of confidence around you. There is nothing more obviously unattractive than terrible posture. Slouching as you walk and sit will only show people that you do not have confidence. On the other hand, walking around with an elevated chest and shoulders back will certainly make you feel and look more attractive and manly.

Slow Down Your Movements

Men that display attractive body language are sure of themselves. Their body movements are often precise and calculated. As a FTM transgender male, you should also try to act like this. You should slow down your body movement, as this makes you look more confident and natural. Try to make your movements smooth and graceful. This does not mean you should walk like a tortoise. It simply means avoiding running around like a headless chicken.

Eye Contact

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A key aspect of good body language for both men and women is eye contact. When conversing with other people, proper eye contact is one of the main things they will immediately notice. To be an alpha male, you need to know how to maintain proper eye contact with those you are talking with. Additionally, this will certainly get you more points when conversing with women. Looking down or averting your eyes when conversing with a lady will reveal a lack of confidence. On the other hand, never blinking or holding eye contact for too long can make your partner feel uncomfortable. You should learn the difference between staring and maintaining proper eye contact. Coupled with a smile, good eye contact will help you project attractive male body language.

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Effective Tips For Dating A FTM Transgender Guy

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Relationships are tough. They are marred by a plethora of complications, including poor communication, petty disagreements, and jealously. However, there are some relationships that come with their own unique challenges. One such relationship would be with a FTM transgender guy. If you are a tough cookie who has been eyeing a hot FTM trans guy, there are several tips below that can help you have a smooth relationship with him.

FTM Trans Guys Are Different

Although it may sound cliché, it is worth mentioning that, just like everyone else, transgender guys are not all the same. They come from different backgrounds in terms of culture, race, religion, etc. Also, their transitioning periods have not been the same. Remembering this is important because it will help you get to know them on a personal level.

Additionally, it is important to note that transgender guys have the same social, romantic, and sexual needs as anyone else. However, their needs might be slightly different compared to other cis men you have dated before.

Your Relationship Might Be Perceived Differently By Other People

FTM Trans GuysOne of the unique challenges that comes with dating a transgender guy is people making assumptions about your relationship. Because you are dating a FTM transgender guy, some people might assume that you are gay. Even if you say otherwise, your family members and friends could still secretly think that you are gay. Being labeled as gay because of your partner’s gender identity can seem cruel and unfair. Nonetheless, you should expect some confusion and learn how to handle intolerance.

Be Prepared To Support Your Trans Guy

Transitioning is no walk in the park. Worse, some transgender people lack support when they come out. Even their friends and family members may offer them a cold shoulder. Therefore, it is important to support your transgender man. Transgender guys are constantly faced with the challenge of projecting a strong male image. Complimenting his efforts to be manly would go a long way in helping him feel more comfortable with his masculinity.

In addition, if your man has any issues with his body, be supportive. If he wants to keep his shirt on while having sex, do not force him. Over time you can find a slow but loving way to get his shirt off. If you show that you are comfortable with his body, he will certainly start becoming comfortable with himself.

Make Him Feel Comfortable With Intimacy

FTM Trans GuysCommunication is key when dating a transgender man. Make sure that you ask him about his body and his sexual needs, and find out what turns him on. By doing this, you will help him feel comfortable with intimacy. It is important to mention that some FTM Transgender Guys may dislike sexual contact that is usually enjoyed by female-bodied folk, and they may feel uncomfortable with certain aspects of the female anatomy. Therefore, make sure the two of you can discuss these things freely so that you can enjoy being intimate.

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First Dates Ideas For Dating A Transgender Woman

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When a transgender girl finally agrees to a first date, you will definitely be on cloud nine. However, now comes the tricky part: Where do you go on your first outing together? Being prepared for your first date is crucial to its success. The first date should be casual, but not so laidback that it seems unplanned.

Your first date with a transgender woman should give you a chance to chat and get to know each other more. Therefore, you should choose a place with a good atmosphere that gives the two of you a chance to converse freely. If you do not have any ideas for a good first date location, continue reading the following tips to find one.

Drinks At A Bar

This is the simple yet rewarding location for a first date. Choosing a good bar can be a little tricky, so choosing a location with a relaxed or intimate atmosphere is best. An ideal bar for the first date should be dimly lit and relatively quiet. This works well because it creates a good ambiance and actually allows you to hear each other during conversation.

Coffee Date

Meeting for coffee is another great first date idea. If you are on a tight budget, this is ideal because coffee is relatively inexpensive. The simplicity of a coffee date is another positive attribute because, with fewer variables, your date is more likely to end successfully. Given that coffee dates are almost always in the morning or afternoon, it makes things a bit more causal and friendly than an evening date. However, if you want to increase the romance, you can choose a coffee shop with a more intimate vibe.

Dinner At A Restaurant

A dinner date is one of the best ways to add a bit of romance to your first date with a transgender woman. Although this idea sounds like a no-brainer, many people actually get it wrong because they pick the wrong venue. For example, it is highly recommended that you avoid fancy restaurants because your date might expect nothing short of five-star treatment on every date. Keep things relatively casual to begin with and save the fancy places for special occasions.

Amusement Park

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A day at an amusement park is another perfect first date idea. It provides you and your partner with plenty of time to talk and have fun. When people have fun, they tend to let their guard down. As a result, you will get to know more about your date as a person. Additionally, unlike the other ideas, being at an amusement park offers many opportunities for physical contact with your date.

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Finding a TS Girlfriend Online

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The transformative hands of time and technology have become true game-changers in every aspect of human life, and the dating sphere has not been spared either. Nowadays, finding a TS girlfriend online is considerably easier than you might think. All you need to be successful in this endeavor are a few tricks and the knowledge of where to look for transsexual women. First, you must know which sites are the best for TS dating. Given the sheer number of transgender dating sites currently online, choosing the best dating site can be somewhat confusing and intimidating, especially if you are a newcomer. Luckily, this article will offer you some insightful points to point you in the right direction when searching for a TS girlfriend online.

Determine What Kind of TS Girlfriend You Want

transgender womenBefore you begin your hunt for a transgender woman on the various TS dating sites, it is important that you determine the kind of qualities that you want in a girlfriend. Are you looking for an older or a younger TS girlfriend? What common interests should she have? At this point, it is also important to establish whether you want to meet a TS woman who lives locally or if a long-distance relationship would work for you.
Beyond the above, you should also figure out whether you are only interested in an online dating arrangement or if you would want to meet the TS woman in person. You should be honest with yourself about the expectations you have and communicate these expectations to the TS woman when the time is right.

Finally, it is worth mentioning that even though online dating is convenient, people tend to embellish their better qualities at the expense of their flaws. You should be on the lookout for discrepancies when meeting someone in person to determine how truthful they were when you were just chatting.

Read the Profiles Carefully

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Reading the profiles of the TS women on the TG dating site can help you choose your potential date wisely. Make sure that you understand whether she is looking for friendship or romance. It is advisable that you spend your time on TS women who have taken the time to come up with attractive profiles because it shows they are serious and know what they want.

Check whether the profiles states the “ideal partner” she is looking for. If the profile gives some criteria or preferable traits, make sure you measure up before making your move. It is also crucial to check whether the age stated on the profile coincides with the profile picture.

Connect

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Once you have found a TS girl that you are interested in, make a move. Follow the transsexual dating site instructions for being connected. In most cases, this process begins with chatting. When you first start, take things slow. Don’t be in a hurry to state your worries or interest. You should focus on creating a rapport with the TS woman and slowly start engaging her in meaningful conversation. This will help you get to know her better and, if all goes well, lead to a date.

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Building Confidence As A FTM Trans Guy

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As a FTM trans guy, there are several things that should always be in your metaphorical survival kit. Confidence is the most important. Every step of your transitioning period should be punctuated with confidence, and a lack of confidence can negatively affect your ability to embrace your manliness. However, if you are having trouble building your self-confidence, you should know that you are not alone. Here are a few tips that can help you build confidence and live the life you always dreamed of.

Understand Your Strengths and Weaknesses

Everyone has unique skills and talents, just as they also have areas for improvement. While many of these would remain the same even after your transition, some may have changed. As a rule of thumb, make sure that you know what you are good at and what your weaknesses are. Once you understand these areas, you will be able to improve your self-confidence.

Be a Friend to Yourself

Unfortunately, some FTM trans men are their own worst enemy. It is impossible to build your self-confidence up if you are the one constantly putting yourself down. If you want confidence and high self-esteem, you need to love and accept yourself first. You must avoid negative thoughts or being self-deprecating.

Remember and Celebrate Your Success

Never make the mistake of downplaying your success or only focusing on what you are struggling with. Such traits will not help you build self-confidence. Focusing on the negative aspects of your life will only drag you further down. However, if you create a habit of celebrating your successes (no matter how small they are), you will soon feel more confident.

Take Risks

There is no better way of building self-confidence than taking risks. Taking risks shows that you are confident in yourself and your abilities. However, you do not have to do something scary or dangerous to achieve this. Simply getting out of your comfort zone and trying something new would be enough. In essence, this point is all about living your life to the fullest. You may not like the outcome of something you do, but you may forever regret not giving yourself the opportunity to try.

Be Persistent

It is important to realize that confidence does not appear overnight. It takes time and effort to build it up. Therefore, you should be persistent and never give up. Never make any excuses and try to learn from your mistakes instead of repeating them. As they say, “When the going gets tough, the tough get going.”

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As a final note, if you are struggling with self-confidence and do not know where to start, find a trusted friend with whom you can share your troubles. Having a strong support system can help you be more confident and give you the foundation you need to begin building confidence on your own.

Get ready for the most fun you’ve had in forever. Time to logon to the ftm dating site. You can get online now and chat with tons of trans singles until you find the perfect fit that works for your life. It doesn’t matter if you’re female to male, you’ll find it all right here.