Embracing the Journey from Female to Male

Female to Male

In this world, there are people who are born female but identify as male. Such people yearn to transition to the gender they have always identified with. If you are a female who identifies with the male gender, understand that you are not alone. Thanks to the advancement of technology, you can physically transition to the male you have always been.

Female to MaleThe surgery that will enable you to transform from female to male is known as Sex Reassignment Surgery. This surgery alters your physical features to match those of the male gender. It involves two stages: the upper surgery and the bottom surgery. The upper surgery includes a double mastectomy and the reconstruction of the chest. This will get rid of your bust and give you a flat, manly chest. The bottom surgery involves a surgery known as RFF Phalloplasty. This procedure involves the use of skin and veins from the forearm to construct a male phallus. Apart from RFF Phalloplasty, there is another similar procedure called ALT Phalloplasty that uses skin and veins from the thighs to make a male phallus instead.

Transitioning from female to male is a unique journey for each person who chooses to undertake it. You not only have to transition physically but socially as well. Below are some insightful tips that will help you learn how to embrace your journey from female to male.

Accept Yourself

Just because you do not identify with the gender you received at birth does not make you a basket case. It is perfectly normal not to identify with the gender assigned at birth. Many people, unfortunately, are faced with gender dysphoria due to this situation. Therefore, it is essential to accept who you are. In fact, accepting yourself is a vital step in your transitioning process.

Start by Coming Out

The best starting point for your transition is to come out. While this step may be uncomfortable, you need to take it nonetheless. Your family, friends, and loved ones need time to adjust to the news. Even after your physical transformation it might take time because people were used to the female you. During this step, you will need a strong support system, so finding friends and family members who are accepting of your change should be a priority.

Start Acting/Dressing like a Guy

Female to Male

Social transformation is an important step on your journey to embracing your masculinity. You can start your social transformation simply by acting and dressing like a guy. You cannot expect people to address you as a “he” when you are dressed in clearly feminine clothes. Remember: the acting will eventually have to stop for you to become the real you, meaning it will eventually become your reality and not an act. There are various websites online where you can read about how to project a manly image.

Seek Professional Help

For your physical transformation, you will need professional help. You should begin by talking to a therapist, who can help you with the emotional problems you may be going through. Next, you should look for a professional doctor who can advise you on the best route to follow for your physical transformation.

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Effective Tips for Feminizing Your Body Movements

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If you are an MTF trans woman, then you understand that your body movements can make or break your feminine image. This is because the way you move plays a huge role in your overall look. Luckily, there are several simple techniques that a transgender woman can use to help feminize her body movements and project a feminine image.

Dress Suitably

MTF Trans WomenAs an MTF trans woman, how you dress matters. Not only does it reflect your sense of style but also how your body moves. Wearing clothes that fit your body well helps you move in a more feminine way. When practicing different body movements, you should avoid baggy clothes. If you are used to pants or jeans, change to skirts and dresses. The way you walk and sit are very different if you are wearing a skirt. Also, skirts help your body movement appear more profound. However, short skirts should be avoided.

Be Moderate

Many transgender women make the mistake of over-exaggerating their body movements. They think they will appear to be more feminine if they display such traits even more prominently than cis women. One of the most common areas that transgender women exaggerate are their hips. Swinging your hips too much looks more awkward than sexy. To master this art without overdoing it, simply put on heels and walk normally. Walking this way will make your hips sway naturally.

Avoid Poor Body Posture

Your body posture is the foundation of all your movements. If you want to feminize your body movements, start by mimicking feminine posture. An example of poor body posture you should avoid is slouching. Many tall MTF women make the mistake of slouching to minimize their height. Also, don’t arch your back to make your butt stick out more, as you are more likely to look silly than sexy.

Mind How You Sit and Walk

MTF Trans WomenIf you have lived all your life in “male mode,” adjusting how you sit and walk can be challenging. However, that does not mean it’s impossible. As a rule of thumb, always make sure that your knees are together when seated; there is nothing that can kill your feminine posture more than sitting down with your legs apart. Also, it is important to keep your head up and your elbows in when walking. Tucking your elbows in makes your feminine movements more profound.

Stretch Out Regularly

To feminize your body movements, you must have a body that is neither tense nor tight. Improving your flexibility can be achieved by stretching regularly. Stretching out will not only improve your body movements but also help you to have a fit and healthy body.

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Life as a Transgender

Life as a Transgender

When one decides they prefer a different gender than the one they were assigned at birth, it can seem a bit obvious and thrilling, but there are some challenges that come with that decision. Before undergoing the complete transgender procedure there is a lot of teaching and preparation that is given to the individual so that they may be ready to face the decision and the consequences of their actions. These will include both physical and mental preparations, though most individuals who undergo this procedure will be 100% positive about their decision even before challenges come. The most important factor is after the procedure when most individuals are ready to face the world. They want to show how relieved and happy they are to be what they have longed to be for such a long time. To do this, they need a program that shows them how to get used to their new life style.

New Identity

Life as a Transgender

After the course of treatment, the transgender individual gets to take a new identity card with their new, preferred name. It will also include a photo with their new features. Whether male or female it will be good for people to know the individual and get used to their new identity; the earlier they learn the better for everyone. The new identity also helps boost their confidence when they meet people as they get to introduce themselves without any fear or shyness.

Social and Voluntary Activities

Life as a Transgender

After the treatment, it is beneficial for the transgender person to get to socialize with individuals of their new gender by going out and experiencing different activities with different people. The transgender community has a great network and groups where individuals get to talk about their experiences, how they overcome discrimination from society, and how their friends and co-workers have come to accept them. Joining these groups is a must for transgender individuals as it helps them adapt faster and boost their confidence around people. Doing some community volunteer work also helps them to make people appreciate that they are not psycho, but are just normal humans who have made a certain choice about their life. This is also useful for getting full or part time employment in the future, as it improves the understanding that nothing but the gender has changed; being transgender does not affect the working ability of an individual.

Eating Healthy

Apart from everything else, after the transgender procedure individuals are required to eat well and live a healthy, fit lifestyle. They should try to eat food that will help boost the immune system and the reproductive system, as well as the urinary system so as to avoid complications in future such as infections and so on. Exercise is also recommended so as to strengthen the muscles due to the alterations and reconstruction that the body would have undergone. Finally, drinking plenty of water is very important.

Why Get A Transgender Girlfriend

One popular quote says – “What prevents people from becoming autonomous, fulfilled, and ultimately happy is their refusal to open themselves to experiences that are new and unfamiliar.”

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The modern cis dating market is almost a Mad-Max Thunder Dome dystopia. Anyone who has been in the cis dating market for some time finds to his dismay that cis-women in the modern dating market have more issues than Time magazine. It is a ruthless winner-takes-all-situation. Cis-women are hyper judgmental beings, and men have been reduced to being circus performers who have to constantly entertain the cis-women non-stop or face rejection.

Modern women have a plethora of issues which make them caustic; it can even be argued that modern cis-women would not get any male attention if the almighty love hormones were not at play. Add to that the vast majority of cis-women do not act feminine, care little about their appearance, and do not know how to respond to male affection appropriately.

Enter the Transgender Woman

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The first thing that you have to understand is that, despite what the mass media and the society says, transgender woman are women, and in many ways they are probably the only women around. A transgender woman, due to her unique position of being born in the wrong body, understands the needs and desires of men in ways that are impossible for an average cis-woman.

A transgender woman responds to male affection with feminine gratitude, which is rare among your average cis-woman. Cis-women, with their mentality of entitlement, conclude that male affection and attention are their birthright, and hence treat the men around them like toys to be played with and discarded at will.

Transgender women are also very attractive, and a simple overview of a Transgender Dating Site will prove that the cultural myths about transgender woman are just petty lies that have no truth in reality. Trans-women take much better care of their appearance than the slovenly modern cis-woman.

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The average man is so disillusioned with the dating market that he can be forgiven for his lack of enthusiasm. In fact, many men have just given up and are no longer interested in finding their soul mate. Men cannot be blamed for what is essentially the caustic nature of cis-women. However, men would be losing out if they allowed their lack of enthusiasm to stop them from trying Trans dating. Men have to understand that cis dating has reached its end and Transgender dating in the way of the future. It is about time that dating was about love and fun, rather than joyless work as cis dating has become.

It was said by some poet in the past that true love does not change the beloved but rather alters itself for the beloved. With cis-women it is impossible with their checklist of demands. Maybe if you whole heartedly accept Trans dating then you might get a love that also accepts you unconditionally for who you are and not what you pretend to be.