Packing Tips for FTM Transgender Men

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As a FTM transgender guy, how you feel is equally as important as how you look. Therefore, it is important not only to project a male image but also to feel comfortable in your own skin. One of the places that FTM transgender men have a problem when it comes to feeling like a man is in their nether regions. Given that they have neither a male-looking nor a male-feeling crotch, feeling truly manly can pose some challenges. Luckily, all this can be remedied thanks to packing. In fact, packing is crucial for those who have not undergone a sex reassignment surgery.

Packing, for the uninitiated, is the art of creating a male-looking and male-feeling bulge in the crotch. Packing is essential for FTM transgender guys because it offers them a realistic bulge like that of a regular guy. Some of the terms that are used to refer to a packing device include packy, packer, and STP packer. STP packers are particularly beneficial because you can use them to pee while standing like a man.

It is worth mentioning that not all trans men pack. Some say that packing is too hot or sticky, leading to an uncomfortable feeling. If you find that packing is uncomfortable, you don’t have to do it. Additionally, others do not pack simply because they find it unnecessary.

Occasions that May Warrant Packing

Packing can be particularly advantageous in some specific situations. Even if you don’t like packing, wearing one during these occasions can significantly help you project a strong male image. Many of the occasions that may require you to wear a packing device include times where your crotch area is exposed, such as while swimming. Additionally, if you are the daring type who likes to wear tight fitting pants, packing would be handy because it would help you create a male-looking bulge.

Hard Packing and Soft Packing

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As an FTM transgender men, it is important to understand some of the terms that go with packing. Specifically, you must know how to distinguish between hard packing and soft packing. Packing hard can be defined as the act of wearing a dildo or another prosthetic device that is usually erect. Hard packing is usually done for the purpose of sexual enjoyment. Given that men don’t usually walk about with erect phalluses, it would probably be best to leave hard packing for the bedroom. On the other hand, soft packing simply refers to wearing a packing device simply to create the illusion of a flaccid phallus.

In conclusion, if you are packing for the first time, it would be a good idea to do some research on the products and styles available so that you can create a convincing look with your packing device. Researching online will give you plenty of examples to emulate and teach you how the male scrotum sits under underwear.

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Mistakes to Avoid as an MTF Trans Woman

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Many MTF trans woman find it difficult to fully embrace their femininity. This is understandable given that most of them grew up as men and, therefore, were accustomed to manly behaviors. To fully embrace your femininity as a trans woman, you must constantly strive to be more ladylike. You must think and behave in a womanly fashion, and you must drop any traits that make you look less feminine.

Being feminine is often described by traits such as gentleness, elegance, stylish, and respectful. If you want to get a head start on your journey to embracing femininity, you need to cultivate some of these traits. To make sure you’re on the right path, below are some pitfalls you need to avoid as an MTF trans woman.

Being Too Aggressive

Growing up as a man might have made you a bit aggressive in response to negative situations. However, you need to put a leash on your aggression if you want to be more ladylike. This requires a certain degree of self-discipline. In fact, one of the vital qualities of a woman is self-control. Woman rarely engage in minor fights that could develop into something worse. It is better to walk away with your dignity still intact than to walk away with both your dignity and your face in tatters.

Showing Too Much Skin

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Every woman loves to feel pretty and sexy. However, even though showing a lot of skin is becoming a fad, you should avoid it as an MTF trans woman By showing too much skin, you risk being trashy rather than classy and sexy. As a rule of thumb, only show off one part of your body at a time. When you do choose to reveal a part of yourself, make sure to leave something to the imagination. Showing less skin not only gives you sex appeal but also helps you come across as classy.

Not Minding Your Ps and Qs

Embracing your feminine side requires you to be more polite and compassionate as well. You need to be respectful to everyone around you. Using polite words such as “please” and “thank you” will certainly help in this endeavor. Also, if you go to a party, avoid getting drunk or wasted. Being drunk and being ladylike are not compatible.

Not Grooming Yourself Properly

Being feminine requires a certain level of hygiene and grooming. It is recommended that you clean and dress yourself suitably before going out. This includes being physically clean, wearing nice make-up, and dressing fashionably. Dressing stylishly and applying make-up properly will certainly help you give a lasting feminine impression to whomever you meet.

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How to Embrace Your Femininity without Comparing Yourself to Other Ciswomen

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There is no cookie cutter path to become a confident MTF Trans Woman. You will at times find yourself stumbling in your quest to embrace your femininity. When you stumble, find yourself envious, or compare yourself to other cis-woman, know that you are not alone. Many MTF Trans Women fall into the pit of comparing themselves with cis-women.
It is often said that comparison is the death of joy. In fact, it is one of the surest ways to lower your self-esteem. But how do you stop comparing yourself to others? Below are some valuable tips that will offer you an answer.

Realize that Comparing Yourself is Destructive

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While comparing yourself to others is a fairly normal behavior, it can be self-destructive in many situations. This is because each person is their own worst critic, meaning when we compare ourselves to others, we tend to judge ourselves more harshly. The first step to stopping this behavior is by consciously realizing that it is destructive. You may always find cis-women to be pretty, but their beauty has nothing to do with yours. You are beautiful in your own way separate from them.

Focus on Yourself

For you to make positive strides on your journey to embrace your femininity, you should compare yourself only to yourself. When you look at yourself in the mirror, smile more vibrantly than you did yesterday. Think about what you have achieved and all your potential for the future. When you compare yourself to yourself instead of other cis-women, you will be more appreciative of your uniqueness. Additionally, this process helps you feel good about yourself without necessarily having to think less of others.

Be Kind and Polite

The way you treat others often reflects the way you feel about yourself. As a result, showing compassion for yourself allows you to be more compassionate towards others and vice versa. If you tend to criticize other people, you will likely be more critical of yourself. However, if you are kind to others, you will almost certainly be kind to yourself.

Focus on the Positives

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Every person has flaws. A guaranteed way to magnify your flaws out of proportion is by comparing yourself with other people. People tend to present the best of themselves to the outside world both in person and on social media. You are likely comparing your flaws with the best the other person has to offer; it is not a fair comparison. Instead of comparing yourself with other people, try to focus on the positive aspects of yourself and your life. Make it a habit to think positively about yourself and others.

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First Dates Ideas For Dating A Transgender Woman

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When a transgender girl finally agrees to a first date, you will definitely be on cloud nine. However, now comes the tricky part: Where do you go on your first outing together? Being prepared for your first date is crucial to its success. The first date should be casual, but not so laidback that it seems unplanned.

Your first date with a transgender woman should give you a chance to chat and get to know each other more. Therefore, you should choose a place with a good atmosphere that gives the two of you a chance to converse freely. If you do not have any ideas for a good first date location, continue reading the following tips to find one.

Drinks At A Bar

This is the simple yet rewarding location for a first date. Choosing a good bar can be a little tricky, so choosing a location with a relaxed or intimate atmosphere is best. An ideal bar for the first date should be dimly lit and relatively quiet. This works well because it creates a good ambiance and actually allows you to hear each other during conversation.

Coffee Date

Meeting for coffee is another great first date idea. If you are on a tight budget, this is ideal because coffee is relatively inexpensive. The simplicity of a coffee date is another positive attribute because, with fewer variables, your date is more likely to end successfully. Given that coffee dates are almost always in the morning or afternoon, it makes things a bit more causal and friendly than an evening date. However, if you want to increase the romance, you can choose a coffee shop with a more intimate vibe.

Dinner At A Restaurant

A dinner date is one of the best ways to add a bit of romance to your first date with a transgender woman. Although this idea sounds like a no-brainer, many people actually get it wrong because they pick the wrong venue. For example, it is highly recommended that you avoid fancy restaurants because your date might expect nothing short of five-star treatment on every date. Keep things relatively casual to begin with and save the fancy places for special occasions.

Amusement Park

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A day at an amusement park is another perfect first date idea. It provides you and your partner with plenty of time to talk and have fun. When people have fun, they tend to let their guard down. As a result, you will get to know more about your date as a person. Additionally, unlike the other ideas, being at an amusement park offers many opportunities for physical contact with your date.

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Finding a TS Girlfriend Online

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The transformative hands of time and technology have become true game-changers in every aspect of human life, and the dating sphere has not been spared either. Nowadays, finding a TS girlfriend online is considerably easier than you might think. All you need to be successful in this endeavor are a few tricks and the knowledge of where to look for transsexual women. First, you must know which sites are the best for TS dating. Given the sheer number of transgender dating sites currently online, choosing the best dating site can be somewhat confusing and intimidating, especially if you are a newcomer. Luckily, this article will offer you some insightful points to point you in the right direction when searching for a TS girlfriend online.

Determine What Kind of TS Girlfriend You Want

transgender womenBefore you begin your hunt for a transgender woman on the various TS dating sites, it is important that you determine the kind of qualities that you want in a girlfriend. Are you looking for an older or a younger TS girlfriend? What common interests should she have? At this point, it is also important to establish whether you want to meet a TS woman who lives locally or if a long-distance relationship would work for you.
Beyond the above, you should also figure out whether you are only interested in an online dating arrangement or if you would want to meet the TS woman in person. You should be honest with yourself about the expectations you have and communicate these expectations to the TS woman when the time is right.

Finally, it is worth mentioning that even though online dating is convenient, people tend to embellish their better qualities at the expense of their flaws. You should be on the lookout for discrepancies when meeting someone in person to determine how truthful they were when you were just chatting.

Read the Profiles Carefully

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Reading the profiles of the TS women on the TG dating site can help you choose your potential date wisely. Make sure that you understand whether she is looking for friendship or romance. It is advisable that you spend your time on TS women who have taken the time to come up with attractive profiles because it shows they are serious and know what they want.

Check whether the profiles states the “ideal partner” she is looking for. If the profile gives some criteria or preferable traits, make sure you measure up before making your move. It is also crucial to check whether the age stated on the profile coincides with the profile picture.

Connect

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Once you have found a TS girl that you are interested in, make a move. Follow the transsexual dating site instructions for being connected. In most cases, this process begins with chatting. When you first start, take things slow. Don’t be in a hurry to state your worries or interest. You should focus on creating a rapport with the TS woman and slowly start engaging her in meaningful conversation. This will help you get to know her better and, if all goes well, lead to a date.

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Building Confidence As A FTM Trans Guy

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As a FTM trans guy, there are several things that should always be in your metaphorical survival kit. Confidence is the most important. Every step of your transitioning period should be punctuated with confidence, and a lack of confidence can negatively affect your ability to embrace your manliness. However, if you are having trouble building your self-confidence, you should know that you are not alone. Here are a few tips that can help you build confidence and live the life you always dreamed of.

Understand Your Strengths and Weaknesses

Everyone has unique skills and talents, just as they also have areas for improvement. While many of these would remain the same even after your transition, some may have changed. As a rule of thumb, make sure that you know what you are good at and what your weaknesses are. Once you understand these areas, you will be able to improve your self-confidence.

Be a Friend to Yourself

Unfortunately, some FTM trans men are their own worst enemy. It is impossible to build your self-confidence up if you are the one constantly putting yourself down. If you want confidence and high self-esteem, you need to love and accept yourself first. You must avoid negative thoughts or being self-deprecating.

Remember and Celebrate Your Success

Never make the mistake of downplaying your success or only focusing on what you are struggling with. Such traits will not help you build self-confidence. Focusing on the negative aspects of your life will only drag you further down. However, if you create a habit of celebrating your successes (no matter how small they are), you will soon feel more confident.

Take Risks

There is no better way of building self-confidence than taking risks. Taking risks shows that you are confident in yourself and your abilities. However, you do not have to do something scary or dangerous to achieve this. Simply getting out of your comfort zone and trying something new would be enough. In essence, this point is all about living your life to the fullest. You may not like the outcome of something you do, but you may forever regret not giving yourself the opportunity to try.

Be Persistent

It is important to realize that confidence does not appear overnight. It takes time and effort to build it up. Therefore, you should be persistent and never give up. Never make any excuses and try to learn from your mistakes instead of repeating them. As they say, “When the going gets tough, the tough get going.”

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As a final note, if you are struggling with self-confidence and do not know where to start, find a trusted friend with whom you can share your troubles. Having a strong support system can help you be more confident and give you the foundation you need to begin building confidence on your own.

Get ready for the most fun you’ve had in forever. Time to logon to the ftm dating site. You can get online now and chat with tons of trans singles until you find the perfect fit that works for your life. It doesn’t matter if you’re female to male, you’ll find it all right here.

A Survival Guide for Your First Date with A Transgender Woman

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The benefits of meeting a TS woman on a transgender dating site is that you’ll get an excellent opportunity to learn her personality without physical appearance getting in the way. During this time, it is important that you ask relevant questions when you chat with her online. It is especially wise to ask her what she likes and dislikes in a boyfriend. Your conversations online will help you build a rapport before going out on the first date. Knowing her personality and building trust with her is crucial for surviving your first date.
However, it is the date itself where the fun begins. Meeting a person for the first time can be a nerve-wracking experience, even for the most confident of individuals. Fortunately, in order to make sure that all goes smoothly, this article will provide a survival guide for your first date with a transgender woman.

Get Rid of the Pre-Date Nerves

While being nervous for a first date is understandable, too much nervousness can have a negative impact on your date. One way to control the nerves is simply by distracting yourself with something interesting before the date begins. If you like to hit the gym, do so a few hours before your date in order to keep pre-date jitters at bay. Reading a book can also help distract you from nervousness. The trick is to keep yourself preoccupied so that you avoid overthinking about the date. Eliminating pre-date nerves will help you feel relaxed and prepare you to have a good time when the date begins.

Prepare Accordingly

A successful first date involves some level of preparation. You must be prepared both physically and emotionally for it. In terms of physical preparation, ensure that you are well dressed. Emotional preparation includes planning the topics you want to discuss with your date. When you are well prepared, conversations will run smoothly and you will come off as charming and confident.

Arrive On Time

Being late is a total turn off for women, whether or not they are transgendered. If you must be late for any reason, make sure to call or text your date to tell them that you won’t be able to make it on time. Additionally, you should have the decency to apologize to your date and try to make up for your lateness. If she has spent her time waiting for you, then you had better be worth the wait.

Enjoy the Date

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Try as much as possible to enjoy the date. This includes flirting and trying to make your date laugh. If you find the date’s venue to be awful, don’t spend all the time complaining. This will make you come off as a negative person. At all times you should be civil, polite, and neutral. The one thing you should not do is lie. Being honest is always the best policy, although telling the truth with tact and kindness is always appreciated. As a side note, while flirting is recommended, don’t take it too far on the first date.

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