What’s the Type of Man for Transgender Woman

Man for a Transgender Woman

“True love does not alter the beloved, it alters itself:” –Soren Kierkegaard

To all the men, I will save you the suspense and spill the beans right away. Transgender Women want men. I am not trying to be facile, but that is pretty much it. I speak here as a man who has been in the dating market for a long time and has just recently explored the world of Transgender Dating.

In the shark infested pool of cis-dating, cis women look for men that are their ideal. A simple search of the dating profiles of cis women will show the endless wish list cis women have with regards to men that they would consider dating.

With Transgender Women the situation is radically different. Transgender Women are women for all intents and purposes and behave in a manner that will shock the men who are used to masculine and overbearing cis-women.

Man for a Transgender Woman

Transgender Women have needs and desires just like any other person. However due to their unique position, they have a greater understanding of life and realize the essential fallibility of humans. They know and accept that human beings are flawed and have to be loved despite their flaws. Flaws have to be accepted and not corrected when it comes to true love.

Transgender Women want men who are open minded, who care and love them, and who accept them for who they are, not the perfect ideal that they would like the woman to fit into. In other words, they want a man to find beauty in the average. It is precisely this aspect of Transgender Women that makes relationships with them so much more fulfilling and deep.

As humans, we crave for a deeper bond that is more than sexual. Transgender Women look for men who are their soul mates and who they can share their bed and their dreams with. They want men who do not try to mock them for their lifestyle and choices; rather, they want men who accept them despite their choices.

Transgender Women are also sexually very active and are much more nubile than the average cis-woman. Therefore men with a high sexual appetite (that is every man alive) will have a great time with them.

Man for a Transgender Women

Transgender Women will accept only those men who accept them. Make no mistake, these women are not desperate or lacking choices. It’s rather the opposite due to the novelty of Trans dating. Transgender Women are relatively understanding of the flaws of their men, but only on the condition that they understand theirs. In the end, all these women want is a shot true love.

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Making a Transgender Long Distance Relationship Work

Transgender Long Distance Relationship

Long distances and relationships have always proved to be a difficulty for many couples. As a matter of fact, the distance between two involved people can either make or break that relationship. When your significant other is miles away from you, at times the world can appear more dismal than it is. The difficulty associated with a distance relationship is also true when you are dating a transgender partner. However, there are tips that can help you maintain your transgender relationship despite the distance between you and your partner. These tips include:

Talk to your partner before you leave

It is very critical to sit down with your partner and talk before either one of you travels. In such a talk, both partners are an opportunity to air their worries and concerns about the new state of affairs in the transgender long distance relationship. The bottom line is to make sure that the two of you are on the same page about the long distance relationship before anyone travels. Leaving abruptly might freak out your partner, consequently causing damage to the relationship.

Despite the distance, set aside time for each other

Transgender Long Distance Relationship

Though this might sound obvious, you might be shocked to know that communication is widely abused in transgender long distance relationships. Communication is the glue that holds a relationship together. Therefore the more a couple communicates openly, the better the relationship will be. Purposely setting aside time to talk with one another is a good habit for cultivating healthy communication in a transgender long distance relationship. Try communicating daily with your transgender partner, even if it is just for ten minutes.

Use technology to grow your relationship

As mentioned earlier, communication plays a pivotal role in the wellbeing of a relationship. Consequently, to ensure that the communication is effective, you should use technology. The latest trends in communication technology have far surpassed the days of pens, paper, and snail mail. With a superb webcam, you can even have a date on Skype with your loved one, regardless of the distance between the two of you.  Constantly seeing your partner’s face can kindle memories that will make the long wait worthwhile. Do not let the mentality of “out of sight, out of mind” cause your partner to forget about you!

Plan on when the distance will end

Transgender Long Distance Relationship

This is one of the most essential parts in a transgender long distance relationship. How long the two of you will be apart should be discussed before either partner travels, and, if applicable, any changes to those plans should be reported as soon as possible. Having a clear picture of when the two of you will be together again erases any doubts in a transgender long distance relationship. The two of you should make a habit of constantly reminding each other the remaining days before you will be in each other’s arms again.

What Transgender Dating Site Is All About

Transgender Dating Site has quickly gained popularity over the years. It may seem odd to some but for a lot of people who are looking for that special someone it is the ideal place to be. Transgender Dating Site is one of the fastest ways to meet new friends from all over the world. It is also one of the most effective methods to find your soul mate. Here are some reasons you should join a Transgender Dating Site.

transgender dating site

  • It is convenient.
  • It is safe.
  • It provides comfort.
  • It is a great venue for all personality types.
  • It costs less than going out.

Creating your profile will help you find your online dating partner with whom you can possibly have a long and lasting relationship. You can also browse other member’s profiles to begin your search. By uploading your photos, videos or audio clips you will attract a lot of potential romantic suitors which is of course an advantage on your part since you can already have several options to start your selection. You can begin by having a chat with a simple hello. Of course you need to take extra care when giving out information about yourself because this is one way of protecting your identity. You must limit pictures and whereabouts that you are displaying online.

Transgender Dating Site

Here are some of the benefits you can get from a transgender dating site:

  • No time limitations – there is no time limit in looking for that someone. If you’re at a party and there are many singles there you can barely think of approaching a few which limits you. Unlike online, you can approach many singles at any given time.
  • Manageability – you can set your own time to search for your partner and you can do it from anywhere that has internet connection.
  • Privacy – you can view from thousands of search options available from people who are connected at the same time all over the world. And it even gives you the option to limit your personal information.
  • Multitasking – it allows you to speak to as many people as possible at the same time.
  • Free to browse – you won’t have to spend even a single dime no hidden charges.

Although transgender Dating Site is fast and simple, you don’t need to be in a hurry. Make smart decisions that will make you happy.

Gender Transition

Sex Reassignment Surgery of Transgender Female to Male

Female to Male Transition

Like any transition, whether it be female to male or male to female, is a long process. After accepting oneself and letting their peers know about their feelings, it is a complete fact to say that their lives will not be the same. They will gain and lose support, from people who do not understand and people who do. After completing the social process, it is time to start the biological process, which is usually sex hormone therapy. This usually is the cause of increased body hair growth as well as facial hair growth (and loss of hair on temples. It also deepens your voice (may crack a while, and you can lose vocal range if you sing). It also thickens your skin which makes you more tolerant of cold. Testosterone may cause a small amount of growth if you haven’t finished puberty and still have some growth left in your body. Testosterone also stops your menstrual cycle, generally within 3 months (depending on your dose). Your sex drive will likely increase, as will your appetite. Then comes changing one’s name legally, which in itself is also a very long procedure. Many different documents have to be submitted, and this could take a very short or long amount of time, which all comes to worth in the end when a transgender finally gets to be themselves on the outside, already in the inside. Then comes having you gender changed legally. Each state/province/country has its own laws on what an individual needs to do to officially become another gender. Many require documentation from a psychologist or doctor confirming true gender.

Female to Male Transition

New York state requires an endocrinologist to confirm that a person has been on testosterone, as well as a surgeon to confirm that top surgery and a hysterectomy has been performed. People who go through this process, whichever it may be must remember to take their time, especially when they are young. They may feel that this all has to happen instantly. They must remember to be strong, be patient, and make sure they are making the right decisions. Talk to people you know and trust, visit support groups (in person or online), and talk to other transgender individuals. With time, it will all be worth it.

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Transgender FTM Passing

A Trans male is someone who is transitioning from female to male. Often times it is also someone who was born biologically female, but identifies as male, usually because they are unable to transition, for various reasons.

female to male

Most Transgender Female to Male do eventually choose to transition, and will do so by going through HRT, or Hormone Replacement Therapy. They can go to a doctor to receive a prescription for what is usually biweekly injections, though there are other means of receiving the hormone, through methods like patches, gels, or several other ways.

In order to “pass” as male, some trans males will try to get the testosterone, as it will give them a generally more masculine appearance, and lower their voices. However, many FTM transgender male are unable to start hormone therapy, and instead will find other ways to match a male appearance. Binding is one option, where one will bind their breasts to achieve the look of a flat chest. There are quite a lot of ways to do this, but many of them have been known to be very unsafe. One method is using Ace Bandages, but that has been very well known to cause many health problems, and most people will warn against this method. It is not safe, and can cause serious damage to the ribs and lungs.

The safest known way is to buy a medical chest binder, which can be found rather easily online, and in many different styles. Most, if not all trans men will bind their chests, unless they are able to receive “top” surgery, which is usually a surgery to remove most of the breast tissue from the chest.

Another thing trans men will do in order to pass is packing, where they will put something in their pants to mimic the appearance of the bulge left by male genitalia. Packers are sold online in many places, and often look alike to the male genitalia. A much simpler, cheaper method of packing is to use a rolled up sock and place it properly.

Slightly oversize shirts and loose pants are usually the key to having a masculine appearance, though some FTM trans man are able to take on a masculine appearance without the use of large t-shirts. Buying male clothes alone can help more than one would think they could, and it’s a rather easy thing to achieve, seeing as male clothing is usually much cheaper than woman’s clothing.

Much of appearing male depends on your mannerisms and things that one really wouldn’t think to focus on. Men tend to have a different walk than most women, and focusing on the gait while walking can often give a person a more “masculine” way of walking.

One thing to focus on as well is appearance while sitting. Men tend to take up as much space as they can while sitting, while women do the opposite. Generally just trying to take up as much space as possible while sitting will bring a more masculine appearance, from spreading the legs, to doing something as simple as leaning back more.

Trans men are known to be of many sexualities, though a large amount of them are Pansexual, which is an attraction to someone regardless of their gender identity.

Quite a few transgender men are known to date heterosexual women, while some will date gay men. It all depends mostly on the FTM transgender man themselves, and the people that are interested in dating them.

Quite a few well known trans men include:

Chaz Bono, the son of Cher, who has written a book on his experiences as a trans man. The movie Becoming Chaz came out in 2011, which was also a movie about his transition.

chaz bono

Brandon Teena, who was a young trans man that was murdered in 1993. A movie was made about him, the 1999 film Boys Dont Cry.

And Buck Angel, whom is a film-maker, speaker, and advocate. He stars in a documentary about his life, as well.

Buck Angel

Many movies have been made about or starring trans men, including those listed above, as well as the 2002 film Just Call Me Kade, the 2006 movie Boy I Am, and the 2015 movie About Ray.

Many of the movies being created focus on the problems facing transgender youth, which has been an increasing concern in recent years.

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What Does Gender Fluid Mean

Gender Fluid

Gender Fluid

Awareness of multiple genders and sexual orientation has recently taken a limelight in the media, however misconceptions and stereotypes still linger because of this. Before we start to dive in to this subject matter, it is important to know simple terms such as gender, sex, and sexuality. Gender is what people feel within themselves, according to cultural understandings. Such as girls are soft and compassionate, whilst men are less so. Sex is a biological term which directly refers to the genitals one was born with. Sexuality is whom one is attracted to sexually and emotionally. This may or may not align with their gender.

Gender Fluid

Gender fluid is an identity that seems to be regularly mistaken. Gender fluid refers to a gender which varies over time. A gender fluid person may at any time identify as male, female, neutrois, or any other non-binary identity, or some combination of identities. It is a gender identity which can be described as a mix of boy and girl. A person who is Gender Fluid may always feel like a mix of the two traditional genders, but may feel more boy some days, and more girl other days.  Being Gender Fluid has nothing to do with which set of genitalia one has, nor their sexual orientation. It is solemnly as what they feel like inside, and gender fluid people never seem to stick with a single gender identity.

Many celebrities consider themselves genderfluid, such as Miley Cyrus, Tilda Swinton, DJ Ruby Rose, and Andrej Pejić. Standards for each gender has been ever evolving, from more intense beliefs, to sneaky yet still beliefs.

One of the main misconceptions for people who are gender fluid is that their gender is nonexistent, however an individual who is gender fluid experiences a constant shift between the gender spectrums. There are some people who fall under the Trans spectrum that do not feel dysphoric about their gender, but it is well known that most do. Gender Dysphoria is a feeling of your physical body not matching up with how you feel internally that it should be. Many people would describe the feeling of dysphoria in many different ways, though all of the ways that it is described make it clear that it is a negative feeling.

Many people who are gender fluid will date bisexual or pansexual people, those who are attracted to two genders, or are attracted to people no matter what gender they are. Some people who are gender fluid will use pronouns other than he/him or she/her. Some will use the gender neutral they/them, or another term that they choose and use regularly. Along with different pronouns, sometimes they will use gender neutral terms for themselves while dating. Instead of having their significant other calling them their boyfriend/girlfriend, they will terms such as “date mate” or even a term as simple as “partner” or “significant other”.

Many people who are gender fluid will often dress and appear as unisex or androgynous, though in some cases they will decide to mix objects that most would place within gender categories. A good example of that would be someone who decides to wear masculine appearing clothing, with makeup or another part of themselves appearing feminine.

It is recommended that when coming across a genderfluid person, that you politely ask what pronouns they would like to be referred as. Some people who experience fluid gender don’t use the word “genderfluid” for themselves. Some people with fluid genders call themselves by a word such as genderqueer, bigender, multigender, polygender, or other words. This can be because the people haven’t seen the word “genderfluid,” or it can be because they don’t think it describes them well. It’s important to understand that each person has the right to decide what to call their gender identity, and that they’re the only one who can do that.

Gender Fluid

Some genderfluid people find that their environment does not influence their gender identity to change. They find that their gender fluidity is unpredictable and happens randomly. Other genderfluid people find that their gender changes depending on the situation, and is influenced by inside or outside sources. For genderfluid people who think their changes in gender might have to do with their menstrual cycle, they think it might be caused by how the natural hormone levels rise and fall during that cycle. It’s possible that a person might think that they tend to feel male during their periods even if that’s only rarely the case for them, because the incongruence of that situation would feel noticeable and memorable.

The biggest thing to keep in mind for both sides of a relationship with someone who is gender fluid, whether that relationship is platonic or romantic, is being honest with each other about who you are and what you are looking for. Being open with a significant other can really be better for both people involved than one might think.

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Two-Spirit

two-spirit

Two-spirit is a gender that is found in only North American who fulfills one of many mixed gender roles found traditionally among many Native Americans and Canadian First Nations indigenous groups. The mixed gender roles encompassed by the term historically included wearing the clothing and performing the work associated with both men and women. This English term emerged in 1990 out of the third annual inter-tribal Native American/First Nations gay/lesbian American conference in Winnipeg. A direct translation of the Ojibwe term, Niizh manidoowag, “two-spirited” or “two-spirit” is usually used to indicate a person whose body has a masculine spirit and a feminine spirit. The term can also be used more abstractly, to designate presence of two contrasting human spiritsor two contrasting animal spirits (which, depending on the culture, might be Eagle and Coyote). Will Roscoe writes that male and female berdaches have been “documented in over 130 tribes, in every region of North America, among every type of native culture.”The term berdache was coined by western anthropologists and used until the late 20th century, mainly to describe feminine Native Americans assigned male at birth. The term is however inaccurate and can nowadays be considered offensive. Non-natives who use this identity are often accused of “appropriating Native culture.” The history of two-spirits among Indigenous American culture dates back thousands, of years and has been documented in more than 130 North American tribes. Throughout history, a person who was recognized as two-spirit was someone who identified with both male and female gender roles, and so two-spirit is essentially a third gender recognized in Indigenous cultures. The perspective among Indigenous Americans was that having this third gender was a strength their society benefited from. In the Zuni culture a person’s gender was not assigned at birth, but was grown into at 3 or 4 years of age. Two-spirits were not thought of as just a man or just a woman but as embodying characteristics of both genders in a single person, making them a more whole human being.

two-spirit

This Two-Spirits encourages the belief that, by avoiding the pressures surrounding an individual, they are capable of establishing their own identity. This identity for native Two-Spirit individuals arises from an acceptance of their native cultural values and a rejection of Western values. This rejection specifically applies to Western conventions regarding race and sexual identity as the Two-Spirit person’s identity is maintained by their sexual orientation as both male and female and their commitment to their cultural of ethnicity.