Gender Transformation

A few seconds after delivering a baby the medical practitioner is able to identify the physical orientation, behavior and gender of the newborn baby. From that moment the baby is described as either male or female, but in some unfortunate circumstances the child can be called neither due to absence of the reproductive organs or presence of both organs. In the case where both sexual organs are present, the hormonal influence is monitored until the doctor can determine which hormonal features are more dominant. Then the doctor can advise the parents on choosing the gender of their child. As the child grows, he or she may start to feel as though the gender assigned at birth isn’t the right one. In such cases, the individual basically portrays a different identity and expression of gender as compared to their decided gender. Transgender is a term that would describe the behavior that is shown by the individual in comparison to their birth gender, how they express themselves, and probably how their mind identifies themselves.

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Many individuals in today’s society have been opting to change their gender due to reasons that they alone can understand and basically fail to express to those who require answers to their new choice. The term transgender is generally confused with the term transsexual. The term transsexual normally arises as a result of failure to identify the actual gender of an individual at birth. Therefore this term is basically a medical error that simply requires correction. Transgender surgery can be done at any age in both male and female after one has actually decided they are ready for such a transformation. The surgery department normally provides this help to individuals by reassignment or alignment of the gender to the individual.

Gender Transformation

Relatives and friends may find it rather weird and difficult to accept such a decision, but in the end with the help of psychologists and therapy they can come to terms with the changes. After the Gender Transformation, people around such individuals are advised to use correct language expressions, be supportive, to ask questions so as to understand the individuals’ point of view, to avoid feeling sorry for them, and most of all to avoid discrimination as well as appreciate the new form of identity and dress code. It is clear that society still finds such changes difficult to accept, but it would be better to try and understand the person’s view about why they decided to make such a decision.

Femininity Guide for Transgender Women

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Transsexuals have a yearning to live life to the fullest. This is the reason they are “reborn” when they get sex reassignment surgery. However, when they get a new lease on life thanks to the transsexual surgery, many transgender women are faced with the challenge of how to be a feminine. Women have a deeply ingrained need to look elegant and fashionable. There is a lot that goes into making a woman look stylish. For example, men often find a woman’s handbag to be a puzzling conundrum due to the variety of items that are found inside. Though clothes, accessories, and cosmetics cannot be ruled out as contributing to femininity, the following three points play a pivotal role in a woman’s life.

Understanding femininity

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As mentioned above, femininity is more than what one wears or puts on their face. Femininity stems from how one carries their body. Words that aptly and precisely capture femininity would be, “your body makes you feel sexy, your face makes you pretty, your smile makes you gorgeous, but it’s your mind that ices the cake by making you beautiful!” Therefore, it would suffice to say that no amount of money in this world could buy femininity because it is largely a disposition.

Some transgender women are at times reduced to employing “femininity coaches” so as to improve their femininity. However, while the hardest task for being a female is this aspect of understanding femininity, it must to be shouldered by the Transgender Woman, regardless of the cost of hiring a coach.

Your movement and voice

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Women do not walk or move slovenly; there is grace in their movements. Transgender women have to abide by such decorous body movement so as to stay in touch with their feminine side. As a transgender woman, if you do not want people to stare at you every time you saunter into a room, then you have to buckle down and train your body movements to mirror those of a female. At times, women don’t walk; they gracefully slide. Women don’t take a seat by dropping into a chair; they gently sit down. Women don’t sit down with their legs apart; the legs have to be neatly closed together.

When it comes to the voice, it has to be gentle like a falling feather. You can read magazines and watch videos like ‘Develop a Female Voice’ by Melanie Ann Phillips. You can also practice how to speak like a woman with a friend who is honest and unbiased. Whilst training how to speak and move like a woman, learn to constantly smile because it brings out your feminine side.

What you carry in a handbag

Transgender women find themselves carrying handbags, something that was probably foreign to them initially. Some examples of things that are a “must” in a woman’s handbag include the following: hand sanitizer, feminine hygiene products (tampons), deodorant, a compact mirror, lip products, cash, safety pins, a notebook and a pen.

Dos and Don’ts When Dating a Transgender Woman

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If you have finally decided to take the plunge and date a transgender woman, then there are some things you need to learn so as to make your relationship worthwhile. First of all, dating a transgender woman is no walk in the park. Your friends and family might not be accepting of such a move. However, the popular adage “love conquers all” holds water, because if you can make a relationship successful, others will eventually come around or you will learn how to deal with those who don’t understand. Below are some of the Do’s and Don’ts of dating a transgender woman

Dos

Be at peace with your decision

Deciding whether you really want to date a Transgender woman should top your priority list in the Dos of dating a transgender woman. This is vital because the journey of dating a transgender woman can be bumpy. You have to accept that dating a transgender woman does not make you gay.

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Take good care of yourself

Dating a transgender woman is akin to dating a not transgender one. The need to look good cannot be understated. Always dress modestly and hit the gym if needed for you to be more attractive to your transgender lady.

Stand up for her

As mentioned earlier, society has many prejudices, and there is much discrimination against transgender woman. Men who date them have also received the same treatment at times. You might even be told that you are not a ‘real’ man because you are dating a ‘fake’ woman. However, you should develop a tough skin and always defend your transgender woman against any form of discrimination.

Treat your transgender woman with respect

As society continues to bask in the bliss of ignorance – and consequently make the lives of transgender women hell – you should endeavor to love your woman with all your heart. Just because she is a transgender woman, does not make her any less of a human. Transgender women are worthy of love and respect.

Compliment her

Transgender women always strive to look their best. You can complement her efforts by simply complimenting her looks. Also compliment her body, but make sure it’s moderate so that you don’t come across as an amorous pervert.

Don’ts

Don’t be too curious

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Just like how curiosity is hazardous for cats, the same can apply to you if you are dating a Transgender women. Do not assume that just because you are in a relationship with her that it gives you the authority to question her about her past. Be gentle with her. She will tell you all you need to know when she feels safe enough to do so.

Don’t be amorous

Transgenders have been known to have voluptuous bodies that make men drool like fools. However, if you are dating a transgender, no matter how hot she is, you should never seem to be hell-bent on having sex with her. Transgender women have been through a lot and are therefore very cautious before inviting you to their bedrooms. Your patience might be put to the test, but if it triumphs, great sex awaits you!

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Dealing with Emotions in a Transgender Relationship

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It is quite a challenge going into a transgender relationship without investing a great deal of your emotions. After all, how could you enjoy love, one of the most beautiful feelings, without doing so? Well, even with such an investment, you would still want to take care for fear that you might get hurt when you finally break up. Furthermore, you would want to guard against possible emotional abuse from your partner or potential partner. Since no relationship is without its share of challenges, you would want to learn how to deal with your emotions, or those of your partner, when problems start showing. In the section that follows, you will learn some important tips to guide you in difficult situations.

Dealing with a nagging partner

You want to avoid going into a romantic relationship with a partner who nags constantly. Not only will the relationship be draining, but it can also be unhealthy in the long-run. Chances are that the relationship will end at some point if you do not find a way to address the issue or underlying issues. In addition, you will be dealing with an unsatisfied partner throughout the relationship. However, if you are in a relationship with someone who nags already, you do not want his or her actions and words to deprive you of happiness and enjoyment of life. You should discuss the issues and set limits that your partner should respect. Respecting each other’s limits will help your relationship grow.

Dealing with an overly critical partner

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A partner who is constantly criticizing will always find the opportunity to raise guilt in your daily life. This eats into your self-esteem and self-worth. However, you need to protect yourself if you are to grow and thrive in the relationship. One way to do so is to accept and learn from constructive criticism while brushing off the negative. However, you still need to maintain respect for one another if you are to succeed in your efforts. Better still, you can let your partner know that he or she is being unfair and is hurting your feelings when engaging in constant criticism. It may be a tall order, but you should try. Another option is to seek a relationship counselor for help.

Dealing with self-obsession

Some people, when in a relationship, forget about their partner’s needs and think only of themselves. This can be a huge hindrance to the growth of the relationship as one partner will feel slighted by the lack of attention. To deal with such a situation, you should reevaluate if love is still guiding your relationship. If that is not the case then you should discuss the situation to find a lasting solution, and if a satisfactory conclusion cannot be reached then you can consider separation.

Dating a Trans Woman: My Adventures & Advice

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I needed a change; the brutal world of dating had left me exasperated. I decided to try something new and fixed up a meeting with a trans woman online. I got to the bar before her. She came on time. She was a statuesque blonde and remarkably pretty.

There was a mix of excitement and anxiety in my voice. We both introduced ourselves and got down to the usual dating talk that I have done hundreds of times before. However, this time the situation panned out differently. In all my dates with women, it was basically me talking about interesting stuff while the girl just sat there nodding her head and giggling. But this time it felt different.

This girl listened to me with undivided attention and kept her smartphone away. She had many humorous stories to tell, and the time passed quickly. She did not put pressure on me to act cool, nor did she give me that judgmental gaze which is a hallmark of cis dating. The night went smooth, and we eventually went to my place. But that is a story for another time.

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Normal is King: Do not be a weirdo. You have to act completely normal and take it easy. Do not ask uncomfortable questions that will ruin the vibe. It is pretty easy to be normal. Just go with the flow and everything will be all right.

Be Chatty: I have had many dates turn awkward due to neither of us speaking or there being long pauses. You have to avoid this. The conversation does not have to be deep; it can cover general topics and be pointless as long as it is fun. As the man in the courtship process, it is your duty to steer the conversation.

Do Not Make Her Uncomfortable: Trans women really have it tough in the world. They are constantly attacked by the mass media and conservative culture for things they have no control over. It is the duty of the man to make her comfortable and not ask questions that make her feel apprehensive. This is actually very easy to do. You just have to accept the lady as a full woman and you will find that this step will come naturally to you.

Transgender dating is as exciting as it is novel. It is one thrill that has to be experienced to be understood. Trans women will definitely rock your world and will give you a totally new experience. The only thing that a man starting out on this journey of Trans dating has to do is to show up with a nice disposition to the date, have an open mind, and look for love. It is simple. It is uncomplicated. It is beautiful.

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Introducing a Transgender Woman to Your Family and Friends

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Introducing your significant other to your family and friends can be a nerve-racking affair. If your significant other is a transgender woman, the tension can skyrocket to nearly palpable levels. If your family and friends are the puritanical types, introducing your transgender partner would definitely make you feel sweaty like a sinner in church. However, love conquers all; hence as a man, you have to step up to the podium and let the world know that your heart has chosen a transgender woman and nothing, or no one, will change your mind. Below are some tips that will help you in introducing your transgender woman to your family and friends:

Assure her of your love

Before introducing your transgender woman to your family, make sure you have assured her of your unconditional love for her. Tell her, no matter how cold your family and friends might react to the news, it won’t change how you feel about her, nor will it lead to a break up. You have to know that just because you have taken the step of introducing your transgender woman to your family and friends, they might not see you as brave. In fact, some will even tell you that you are gay. Whilst guaranteeing your transgender woman of your love and loyalty for her, you should also determine whether she is comfortable with you revealing your relationship to your family and friends.

Plan

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The two of you should also sit down and plan how you will handle both negative and positive reactions from friends and family. It is important to have reasonable expectations of your family and friends reactions because you know them. If you have an insensitive friend or family member, warn your transgender woman early so that she will be prepared for insensitive comments. The two of you should also plan on how and when the “big reveal” will be made. If your family and friends are brutally judgmental, then it is advisable to make the announcement when your partner is not around. This ensures that their insensitivity does not hurt your transgender lover’s feelings.

Stand up for your lover

Every man who loves his transgender lady should always stand up for her. When you introduce your transgender woman to your friends and family, you can expect that they will have a variety of reactions because every person is different. However, you should not let anyone disrespect her in any way. It would be more effective to be honest and straightforward to people you deem ignorant and intolerant of your transgender woman. When you find someone you love, you are already a winner, and the prejudiced opinions of your family and friends should be secondary. Even if they don’t accept your transgender woman, they have no right to disrespect her in any way. If you truly love your transsexual lady, dropping an insensitive friend won’t be a problem.

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