Relationship Tips for FTM Ttransgender Guys

FTM Ttransgender Guys

Being a FTM Transgender Men is not easy. You are faced with a plethora of challenges personally, sexually, and socially. When it comes to relationships, things can get even more complicated. However, this does not mean you should avoid them. You have sexual and romantic needs and to fulfill them, you must know how to combat some of the challenges that come with relationships. Whether you are dating another trans person or a cisgender person, you should be aware of the potential bumps you could experience. Below are some tips that will help you have a smooth relationship with your partner.

Treat Your Transitioning Process and Relationship Differently

Many FTM transgender guys make the mistake of letting the transition process take over their relationship. Even though it is understandable that the transitioning period can be very demanding, it is important to make sure that it does not mess with your relationship. When you let your transitioning process consume all your thoughts and energy, your relationship will become bland and unfulfilling.

Even though your partner may be willing to support you during your transitioning period, you shouldn’t let all your conversations be about one topic. It can be rather frustrating for your partner if all your conversations are only about you and your situation. Your partner also needs to be listened to and cared for in order to make your relationship work.

Avoid Stereotypical Masculine Behavior

While it is important to embrace your masculinity, it is equally important to not go overboard. You could end up damaging a relationship by taking your masculine behavior and actions too far. Stereotypical masculine behaviors, such as refusing to do chores or avoiding the display of vulnerabilities, will only have a negative impact on your relationship. Sharing your emotions with your partner does not make you any less of a man. Opening up to your partner will, in fact, make your relationship stronger.

Communicate Your Sexual ConcernsFTM Ttransgender Guys

Communication is crucial on so many different levels. If you want to be intimate with your partner, it is important that you communicate accordingly. A good way to accomplish this is to directly tell your partner what turns you on or off during sex. Communicate with your partner about which body parts you like touched and which ones are off-limits. It is important you have this conversation before the two of you hit the sack. Even though such talk may not be romantic or sexy, it is important because it will lead to more satisfying sex and a better relationship.

Walk Away If the Relationship Is Not Working

Relationships are supposed to be safe havens. If you find your relationship is not providing you with the love and support you need, walk away. Never make the mistake of hanging around in an abusive relationship. It will only mess with your self-esteem and prevent you from living your life to the fullest. It is better to walk away with a broken heart than to let a relationship break you as a person.

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Passing Tips for FTM Transgender Men

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The life of a FTM Transgender Men can be very difficult, especially if they don’t pass as male. If you don’t pass as a male, going out in public can be overwhelmingly challenging and intimidating. When someone who is trying to be polite refers to you as “ma’am,” it can be detrimental to your efforts to embrace your masculinity. Below are some tips to help you pass as male in public. While these tips may not fix everything, they will at least decrease the chances of being referred to as “ma’am.”

Wear Clothes Made for Men

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One of the easiest and simplest ways of passing as a male is by wearing male clothes. Unlike female clothes that are designed to highlight curves, men’s clothing tends to be straighter and hides curves. If your body is curvy, wearing male clothes can help you hide your curves. In particular, straight cut pants from the men’s department can help create a flatter behind.

You should try to dress more conservatively that you might have before. This will help you to avoid being mistaken for a lesbian. Simply choose a male image you want to project and cultivate a look to suit that image.

Even out Your Chest

The chest is one of the areas that gives many FTM Transgender Guys a headache. This is because it is very hard to pass as a male when you have a curvy chest. If your chest does protrude, you should invest in a good binder to flatten it. Binding your chest flattens it and gives you a masculine appearance. There are multiple types, so you must do some research and choose the binding methodology that suits you best.

As a side point, binding yourself tightly for too long might be harmful because it causes rib and back pain. It is important to use moderation and give yourself a break from binding occasionally. Also, never use tape or elastic bandages when binding your chest

Get a Hair Cut

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Long hair can have a negative impact on the male image you want to project. If you currently have medium length or long hair, it would be wise to consider a haircut. A good haircut that will certainly help you project a male image. Typical male hairstyles involve keeping your hair short in the back and on the sides.

It is often said that barbers do a much better job at providing a male haircut compared to hairdressers. However, it would be wise to try them both and see which one works better for you. You should not, however, under any circumstances take a pair of scissors and try to do the work yourself. Get a professional haircut, and it will be worth every penny.

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Packing Tips for FTM Transgender Men

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As a FTM transgender guy, how you feel is equally as important as how you look. Therefore, it is important not only to project a male image but also to feel comfortable in your own skin. One of the places that FTM transgender men have a problem when it comes to feeling like a man is in their nether regions. Given that they have neither a male-looking nor a male-feeling crotch, feeling truly manly can pose some challenges. Luckily, all this can be remedied thanks to packing. In fact, packing is crucial for those who have not undergone a sex reassignment surgery.

Packing, for the uninitiated, is the art of creating a male-looking and male-feeling bulge in the crotch. Packing is essential for FTM transgender guys because it offers them a realistic bulge like that of a regular guy. Some of the terms that are used to refer to a packing device include packy, packer, and STP packer. STP packers are particularly beneficial because you can use them to pee while standing like a man.

It is worth mentioning that not all trans men pack. Some say that packing is too hot or sticky, leading to an uncomfortable feeling. If you find that packing is uncomfortable, you don’t have to do it. Additionally, others do not pack simply because they find it unnecessary.

Occasions that May Warrant Packing

Packing can be particularly advantageous in some specific situations. Even if you don’t like packing, wearing one during these occasions can significantly help you project a strong male image. Many of the occasions that may require you to wear a packing device include times where your crotch area is exposed, such as while swimming. Additionally, if you are the daring type who likes to wear tight fitting pants, packing would be handy because it would help you create a male-looking bulge.

Hard Packing and Soft Packing

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As an FTM transgender men, it is important to understand some of the terms that go with packing. Specifically, you must know how to distinguish between hard packing and soft packing. Packing hard can be defined as the act of wearing a dildo or another prosthetic device that is usually erect. Hard packing is usually done for the purpose of sexual enjoyment. Given that men don’t usually walk about with erect phalluses, it would probably be best to leave hard packing for the bedroom. On the other hand, soft packing simply refers to wearing a packing device simply to create the illusion of a flaccid phallus.

In conclusion, if you are packing for the first time, it would be a good idea to do some research on the products and styles available so that you can create a convincing look with your packing device. Researching online will give you plenty of examples to emulate and teach you how the male scrotum sits under underwear.

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How to Display Male Body Language for FTM Transgender Male

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People are very good at reading body language. They can tell whether you are confidence about yourself or if you are tense and nervous just by looking at you. Additionally, male and female body language has some distinct differences in style. As a result, it is important to know what kind of body language is attractive as a FTM transgender male. If you understand and practice attractive body language techniques, you will not only build your confidence but also enjoy an unrivaled masculine image.

Understanding what constitutes as male body language and knowing the influence it has on other people can be very advantageous, particularly when you are dealing with women. If you want a woman to find you irresistibly attractive, then you must know how to project attractive male body language. However, it is worth mentioning that body language is only part of the equation. You must also develop an attractive personality. Below are some tips that will teach you how to display attractive male body language.

Have Good Posture

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Although it may sound cliché, good posture is the first step to having attractive male body language. As a FTM trans guy, it is important to have a good body posture because it creates an aura of confidence around you. There is nothing more obviously unattractive than terrible posture. Slouching as you walk and sit will only show people that you do not have confidence. On the other hand, walking around with an elevated chest and shoulders back will certainly make you feel and look more attractive and manly.

Slow Down Your Movements

Men that display attractive body language are sure of themselves. Their body movements are often precise and calculated. As a FTM transgender male, you should also try to act like this. You should slow down your body movement, as this makes you look more confident and natural. Try to make your movements smooth and graceful. This does not mean you should walk like a tortoise. It simply means avoiding running around like a headless chicken.

Eye Contact

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A key aspect of good body language for both men and women is eye contact. When conversing with other people, proper eye contact is one of the main things they will immediately notice. To be an alpha male, you need to know how to maintain proper eye contact with those you are talking with. Additionally, this will certainly get you more points when conversing with women. Looking down or averting your eyes when conversing with a lady will reveal a lack of confidence. On the other hand, never blinking or holding eye contact for too long can make your partner feel uncomfortable. You should learn the difference between staring and maintaining proper eye contact. Coupled with a smile, good eye contact will help you project attractive male body language.

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Fashion Tips for FTM Transgender Guys

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As a FTM transgender guy,  projecting a male image is crucial. Your presentation matters. Your style of dress matters. The secret to “passing” as male is wearing men’s clothing. This goes beyond simply going to the men’s department in your local shopping center. It is important to choose male clothes that fit your FTM body well, which could be challenging if you have a small body or other considerations. Here are some tips that can help you choose male clothes for your FTM body.

Do the Clothes Fit?

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One of the key questions you should ask yourself when shopping for male apparel is whether they fit your body properly. As a rule of thumb, always go for clothes that fit you well. Whether you are just wearing jeans and a t-shirt or something more dressed up, it should be neither too tight nor too baggy. For example, when choosing pants, ensure that it not only has the right cut but also that it sits comfortably at your waistline.

If you have a slightly smaller body, there is no shame in shopping in the boy’s section. All that matters is whether the clothes will fit your frame and body type. Additionally, shopping in the boy’s section comes with a pocket-friendly price tag.

Are You Comfortable?

FTM Transgender GuyFashion is often a personal choice. Therefore, although you want to project a male image, you should always make sure that you are comfortable in whatever you are wearing. Do not wear something uncomfortable just because other guys are wearing it. You should wear clothing that fits you properly and makes you look like the man you want to be.

If you are one of the lucky FTM transgender guy that have small hips, finding male pants that fit you well and are comfortable is plain sailing. However, if you have slightly bigger hips, finding pants that fit you well can be tricky because most male pants don’t have room for larger hips. When looking for pants, ensure that the pants you choose hug your body while still allowing room for movement.

Do the Clothes Have Any Patterns?

The patterns on the clothing you choose are very important, especially when choosing shirts and t-shirts. This is because they can be used to camouflage any bumps on your chest. For many FTM trans guy, hiding their chest under a shirt can be a somewhat tricky. Luckily, patterns can be used to disguise bumps or make them appear less noticeable.

As a final note, never fall for the misconception that baggier clothing will help you hide your chest or your lack of muscles. Despite what most people think, baggy clothing makes you look older and unfashionable. Clothes that fit well complement your figure and show it off to your best advantage.

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Embracing the Journey from Female to Male

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In this world, there are people who are born female but identify as male. Such people yearn to transition to the gender they have always identified with. If you are a female who identifies with the male gender, understand that you are not alone. Thanks to the advancement of technology, you can physically transition to the male you have always been.

Female to MaleThe surgery that will enable you to transform from female to male is known as Sex Reassignment Surgery. This surgery alters your physical features to match those of the male gender. It involves two stages: the upper surgery and the bottom surgery. The upper surgery includes a double mastectomy and the reconstruction of the chest. This will get rid of your bust and give you a flat, manly chest. The bottom surgery involves a surgery known as RFF Phalloplasty. This procedure involves the use of skin and veins from the forearm to construct a male phallus. Apart from RFF Phalloplasty, there is another similar procedure called ALT Phalloplasty that uses skin and veins from the thighs to make a male phallus instead.

Transitioning from female to male is a unique journey for each person who chooses to undertake it. You not only have to transition physically but socially as well. Below are some insightful tips that will help you learn how to embrace your journey from female to male.

Accept Yourself

Just because you do not identify with the gender you received at birth does not make you a basket case. It is perfectly normal not to identify with the gender assigned at birth. Many people, unfortunately, are faced with gender dysphoria due to this situation. Therefore, it is essential to accept who you are. In fact, accepting yourself is a vital step in your transitioning process.

Start by Coming Out

The best starting point for your transition is to come out. While this step may be uncomfortable, you need to take it nonetheless. Your family, friends, and loved ones need time to adjust to the news. Even after your physical transformation it might take time because people were used to the female you. During this step, you will need a strong support system, so finding friends and family members who are accepting of your change should be a priority.

Start Acting/Dressing like a Guy

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Social transformation is an important step on your journey to embracing your masculinity. You can start your social transformation simply by acting and dressing like a guy. You cannot expect people to address you as a “he” when you are dressed in clearly feminine clothes. Remember: the acting will eventually have to stop for you to become the real you, meaning it will eventually become your reality and not an act. There are various websites online where you can read about how to project a manly image.

Seek Professional Help

For your physical transformation, you will need professional help. You should begin by talking to a therapist, who can help you with the emotional problems you may be going through. Next, you should look for a professional doctor who can advise you on the best route to follow for your physical transformation.

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Building Confidence As A FTM Trans Guy

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As a FTM trans guy, there are several things that should always be in your metaphorical survival kit. Confidence is the most important. Every step of your transitioning period should be punctuated with confidence, and a lack of confidence can negatively affect your ability to embrace your manliness. However, if you are having trouble building your self-confidence, you should know that you are not alone. Here are a few tips that can help you build confidence and live the life you always dreamed of.

Understand Your Strengths and Weaknesses

Everyone has unique skills and talents, just as they also have areas for improvement. While many of these would remain the same even after your transition, some may have changed. As a rule of thumb, make sure that you know what you are good at and what your weaknesses are. Once you understand these areas, you will be able to improve your self-confidence.

Be a Friend to Yourself

Unfortunately, some FTM trans men are their own worst enemy. It is impossible to build your self-confidence up if you are the one constantly putting yourself down. If you want confidence and high self-esteem, you need to love and accept yourself first. You must avoid negative thoughts or being self-deprecating.

Remember and Celebrate Your Success

Never make the mistake of downplaying your success or only focusing on what you are struggling with. Such traits will not help you build self-confidence. Focusing on the negative aspects of your life will only drag you further down. However, if you create a habit of celebrating your successes (no matter how small they are), you will soon feel more confident.

Take Risks

There is no better way of building self-confidence than taking risks. Taking risks shows that you are confident in yourself and your abilities. However, you do not have to do something scary or dangerous to achieve this. Simply getting out of your comfort zone and trying something new would be enough. In essence, this point is all about living your life to the fullest. You may not like the outcome of something you do, but you may forever regret not giving yourself the opportunity to try.

Be Persistent

It is important to realize that confidence does not appear overnight. It takes time and effort to build it up. Therefore, you should be persistent and never give up. Never make any excuses and try to learn from your mistakes instead of repeating them. As they say, “When the going gets tough, the tough get going.”

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As a final note, if you are struggling with self-confidence and do not know where to start, find a trusted friend with whom you can share your troubles. Having a strong support system can help you be more confident and give you the foundation you need to begin building confidence on your own.

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