Building Confidence As A FTM Trans Guy

FTM Trans Guy

As a FTM trans guy, there are several things that should always be in your metaphorical survival kit. Confidence is the most important. Every step of your transitioning period should be punctuated with confidence, and a lack of confidence can negatively affect your ability to embrace your manliness. However, if you are having trouble building your self-confidence, you should know that you are not alone. Here are a few tips that can help you build confidence and live the life you always dreamed of.

Understand Your Strengths and Weaknesses

Everyone has unique skills and talents, just as they also have areas for improvement. While many of these would remain the same even after your transition, some may have changed. As a rule of thumb, make sure that you know what you are good at and what your weaknesses are. Once you understand these areas, you will be able to improve your self-confidence.

Be a Friend to Yourself

Unfortunately, some FTM trans men are their own worst enemy. It is impossible to build your self-confidence up if you are the one constantly putting yourself down. If you want confidence and high self-esteem, you need to love and accept yourself first. You must avoid negative thoughts or being self-deprecating.

Remember and Celebrate Your Success

Never make the mistake of downplaying your success or only focusing on what you are struggling with. Such traits will not help you build self-confidence. Focusing on the negative aspects of your life will only drag you further down. However, if you create a habit of celebrating your successes (no matter how small they are), you will soon feel more confident.

Take Risks

There is no better way of building self-confidence than taking risks. Taking risks shows that you are confident in yourself and your abilities. However, you do not have to do something scary or dangerous to achieve this. Simply getting out of your comfort zone and trying something new would be enough. In essence, this point is all about living your life to the fullest. You may not like the outcome of something you do, but you may forever regret not giving yourself the opportunity to try.

Be Persistent

It is important to realize that confidence does not appear overnight. It takes time and effort to build it up. Therefore, you should be persistent and never give up. Never make any excuses and try to learn from your mistakes instead of repeating them. As they say, “When the going gets tough, the tough get going.”

FTM Transgender Guys

As a final note, if you are struggling with self-confidence and do not know where to start, find a trusted friend with whom you can share your troubles. Having a strong support system can help you be more confident and give you the foundation you need to begin building confidence on your own.

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Tips For Making A Long-Distance Transsexual Relationship Work

A Long-Distance Transsexual Relationship

Long-distance relationships are not for the faint of heart. Being a transsexual or endeavoring to date a transsexual is not for the faint-hearted either. Due to the bravery and dedication these people bring to the table, it should be clear that long-distance transsexual relationships can work in real life. However, this does not mean there won’t be any challenges. To make a long-distance transsexual relationships work, you must be willing to invest your time and commitment, as well as use some creativity. If you have found a match on a transgender dating site, but the only thing between the two of you is distance, do not fret.

There are ways to help you keep your long-distance transsexual relationship healthy, functional, and sexual. These tips include:

Keeping Your Word

Trust is a key ingredient in long-distance transsexual relationships. In order to keep you happy as a couple, it is important that both of you trust each other. If you have a plan to communicate on a daily or weekly basis, it is important that both of you honor that arrangement. You and your partner will only achieve stability if you create concrete plans. Concrete plans do not necessarily mean meeting physically; conversations and dates can be done virtually. For there to be unwavering trust, the two of you need to be confident that you can rely on each other.

Setting Aside Time for Each Other

Despite the distance, it is important that the two of you set aside time for each other regularly. All relationships require time and energy spent on communication. By dedicating time to each other and communicating often, both of you will be building a firm foundation for your love to stand on. Setting aside time for each other could be something as simple as a call after work every day or a simple “I love you” text before bed.

Keeping the Love Alive

Long-Distance Transsexual Relationship

To avoid either partner being sexually frustrated, it is important that both of you keep the love alive in a physical sense as well as an emotional sense. It is perfectly fine and natural to tease each other with dirty photos and sexy messages. Keeping your sex lives active and healthy in a long-distance transsexual relationship requires a bit is creativity. One example is phone sex, though technology provides for a variety of other options. Hearing your partner moan and breath sexily while the two of you pleasure yourselves can make it seem real. And when you are reunited, make sure to spend time together intimately.

Keeping on Keeping On

In every relationship, whether local or long-distance, it is highly recommended that you use your best judgment with what feels right for you and your partner. Despite the difficulties and frustration that distance causes, you can grow as a person and as a couple with a bit of commitment, communication, and creativity.

As a final note, it is important to discuss with your partner when the distance will end. Knowing that there is a concrete conclusion to the separation is very important in a long-distance transsexual relationship because it erases doubts and creates hope for both of you.

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Femininity Guide For Trans Women

Trans Women

Trans Women are unapologetically fashion conscious; they have an insatiable desire to look more feminine. Just like cisgender women, they always want to look younger and prettier. If you visit any Transgender Dating Site, you will be surprised and awed by the number of feminine beauties looking for love. However, after the sex reassignment surgery, many transgender women find themselves at the end of their wits on how to look more feminine. It is important for transsexual women to understand that clothes, cosmetics, and accessories are not the only aspects of femininity, as femininity encompasses more than physical appearance. If you are a transsexual woman and you are struggling with your femininity, this article offers you an insightful guide to help you express your womanliness to the fullest.

Understand Femininity

Unfortunately, even though transsexual women have a womanly gender inclination, they were not brought up as women. As a result, when they are “reborn” after the sex reassignment surgery, they can face some challenges as they learn to embrace their femininity. The first step towards embracing femaleness should be having a firm grasp on what it means to be female. This involves reading and researching about femininity and, if needed, hiring a femininity coach.

Being female is as much mental as it is physical. The way you think, therefore, is the cornerstone of being feminine. If you think you are sexy, then you should walk and talk as though you are the goddess of femininity. Understanding that femaleness is both a state of mind and a physical state is a key factor in unlocking your feminine nature.

Your Voice and Movement

Some of the main areas that transgender woman should concentrate on improving are how they move and talk. First, it is important to analyze your current movements and identify any areas that are overtly manly and abrupt. A woman is supposed to be gentle in her movements; she should be polished, graceful, and decorous. All of these traits should be readily apparent to everyone the moment you walk into a room. How you sit down and carry yourself should be in line with your feminine side. When seated, for example, your legs should never be apart; they should be neatly closed together and tucked under you.

If you have a course, deep voice, it is important that you train it to be more feminine. Several sources can help you develop a feminine voice, including magazines and YouTube videos. Practice makes perfect; hence, ensure that you practice daily. If possible, practice with a friend who is willing to offer you honest, constructive feedback. The more you talk and move like a woman, the more your confidence will soar in your new body.

Smile

Trans Women

Just like the old song says, “You’re never fully dressed without a smile.” To be more feminine, you need to know how to smile like a woman. A smile not only brightens up your face, but it also makes you look friendlier and more welcoming, traits both associated with femininity and womanly charm.

Carry a Handbag

Many transgender women avoid carrying a handbag because they do not know what to put inside it. Purses and bags are both practical and important for daily life as well as a fashion accessory for women. Some must-have products to pack in your handbag include the following: deodorant, a compact mirror, hand sanitizer, some lip products, cash, a notebook, and a pen.

Tips For Being The Feminine Transsexual Woman You Are

Trans Women

The transitioning process for a Trans Woman is very unique. To some extent, there is no right or wrong way to transition. Transitioning is an individual process; there is no “cookie cutter” approach. However, regardless of the road taken in the journey of transition, transsexuals always have to go the extra mile to enhance their feminine image. While this can make transitioning a challenging and expensive process, it also makes the results all the more rewarding when all is said and done.
Whereas some transgender women choose to undergo Sex Reassignment Surgery (SRS), others simply opt for Hormone Replacement Therapy. However, regardless of the road chosen, there are some tips that can help transsexual women embrace femininity to the fullest. Some of these tips include:

Fashion

Trans Women

 

Transsexual women should always strive to improve their sense of style. The first step is choosing fashionable attire with respect to their body size and age. A good way to keep abreast with the latest fashion trends is by reading magazines. Fashion magazines will not only inform transgender women of the latest fashions in town but also indicate where to buy the clothes. Looking at what other women are wearing on the streets can also reveal the newest fashion trends.

Makeup

Trans Woman

Knowing how to apply the right makeup for your skin tone, skin type, and bone structure is crucial. Many transgender women struggle with putting on makeup. It takes time and practice to learn how to do it appropriately and properly. YouTube videos can be a rich source of information on how to apply makeup. As an additional tip, sticking to softer colors at the beginning can help a new makeup user avoid major malfunctions.

Voice

Finding your feminine voice can be a very tricky part of the transition process. Luckily, there are a few tricks that can be used to add a spice of femininity to one’s voice. Transsexual women that have a manly voice should breathe from the stomach and then speak. This helps by getting rid of vibrations in the chest, which can contribute to a deeper, stronger voice. Another trick for helping transgender women sound more feminine is singing. Singing in a calm, high voice can help teach the voice how to sound more feminine.

Eyebrows and Shaving

In additional to makeup, transsexual women should learn how to pluck their eyebrows because it instantly enhances the femininity of their face, creating structure and balance. When shaving, it is important to take the time to get everything right. While being consistent with shaving is important for avoiding stubble, it is equally important to be gentle so as not to irritate the skin. To completely get rid of stubble, laser hair removal, electrolysis, or waxing is recommended.

Aside from the above, confidence should be part of the transitioning process. Transgender women should always walk with their head high because it helps display their feminine features. Being loved for who you really are is also part of feeling more feminine and beautiful; therefore, transsexual women can and should visit online transgender dating site to try their luck.

A Guide to Dating Transgender Women 

Dating Transgender Women

Dating a transgender woman is not easy; it is neither for the faint-hearted nor the lecherous. Dating a transgender woman is reserved for brave men, men who are resolute and honest with their intentions. If you are one of these brave souls, then you understand the importance of doing your homework before dating a transgender woman. This homework includes researching the nuts and bolts of a relationship with a trans woman, which may be difficult as true and practical information is often hard to come by. Fortunately, if you have been wondering what it would be like to date a trans woman or if you have started dating one and need a guide, the following information will be very useful.

Research

Before you begin your search for a trans woman on a Transgender Dating Site, it is important to research and understand the various aspects of transgender people. This will help prepare you for what to expect and lessen the burden of your future partner. Dating a trans woman demands mutual compatibility and common interests just like any other relationship, and the two can only be found after painstaking and thorough research. Improving your knowledge about transgender people and what they go through will help you dispel some of the myths that surround transsexualism.

Avoid Transsexuality Talk During Your Dates

Even though you might be curious, never make the mistake of delving too deep into the subject of trans-sexuality. Just as curiosity killed the cat, it could also kill your relationship with a trans woman. It is possible that the subject might pop up later, but in the beginning it is better to err on the side of caution and steer away from potentially awkward subjects. Even if she initiates the subject it would be best to proceed carefully. However, when she expresses willingness to talk about trans-sexuality, listen keenly and without judgment. As with all personal matters, you should understand that most transgender women are uncomfortable thinking about their sex/gender/surgical state, let alone talking about it.

First Impression Matters

Dating Transgender Women

If you are dating a transgender woman, then you clearly understand the elaborate sense of fashion they have and the effort they place into their looks. Transgender women do their best to look womanly and attractive. You should be appreciative of your companion’s appearance and also complement their efforts by putting effort into your dress and maintenance as well. This is particularly crucial on your first date when you are hoping to make the best impression possible. Do not expect to impress a transgender woman if you show up looking like a dog’s dinner.

Be a Gentleman

Some transgender women are even more feminine than their cisgender counterparts are. Therefore, you should endeavor to treat them as you would any other woman by acting like a gentleman and treating them with care and respect. Don’t let sex be the main focus of your conversation, as focusing on sexual talk might signal that you are only interested in sex. Engage your date in meaningful conversation, listen when she talks, and smile so that she feels safe and comfortable. Good things happen when a woman feels safe with a man.