How to Embrace Your Femininity without Comparing Yourself to Other Ciswomen

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There is no cookie cutter path to become a confident MTF Trans Woman. You will at times find yourself stumbling in your quest to embrace your femininity. When you stumble, find yourself envious, or compare yourself to other cis-woman, know that you are not alone. Many MTF Trans Women fall into the pit of comparing themselves with cis-women.
It is often said that comparison is the death of joy. In fact, it is one of the surest ways to lower your self-esteem. But how do you stop comparing yourself to others? Below are some valuable tips that will offer you an answer.

Realize that Comparing Yourself is Destructive

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While comparing yourself to others is a fairly normal behavior, it can be self-destructive in many situations. This is because each person is their own worst critic, meaning when we compare ourselves to others, we tend to judge ourselves more harshly. The first step to stopping this behavior is by consciously realizing that it is destructive. You may always find cis-women to be pretty, but their beauty has nothing to do with yours. You are beautiful in your own way separate from them.

Focus on Yourself

For you to make positive strides on your journey to embrace your femininity, you should compare yourself only to yourself. When you look at yourself in the mirror, smile more vibrantly than you did yesterday. Think about what you have achieved and all your potential for the future. When you compare yourself to yourself instead of other cis-women, you will be more appreciative of your uniqueness. Additionally, this process helps you feel good about yourself without necessarily having to think less of others.

Be Kind and Polite

The way you treat others often reflects the way you feel about yourself. As a result, showing compassion for yourself allows you to be more compassionate towards others and vice versa. If you tend to criticize other people, you will likely be more critical of yourself. However, if you are kind to others, you will almost certainly be kind to yourself.

Focus on the Positives

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Every person has flaws. A guaranteed way to magnify your flaws out of proportion is by comparing yourself with other people. People tend to present the best of themselves to the outside world both in person and on social media. You are likely comparing your flaws with the best the other person has to offer; it is not a fair comparison. Instead of comparing yourself with other people, try to focus on the positive aspects of yourself and your life. Make it a habit to think positively about yourself and others.

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How To Build Confidence As A MTF Trans Woman

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It is said that women often have some difficulty when it comes to developing self-confidence. They tend to focus on building others up rather than helping themselves. For an MTF Trans Woman, things can be even more challenging. Therefore, it is important for MTF Transgender Women to take some time for self-confidence development. Luckily, self-confidence can be mastered via learning, and even if you stumble here and there, you can succeed if you persevere. Here are some tips that will help you bolster your confidence as an MTF Trans Woman.

Relax

The ability to relax can be advantageous when developing self-confidence. First, you must identify situations that trigger nervousness. Once you know the types of situations that make you feel tense or uncomfortable, you will be in a position to make adjustments so you can relax. For example, if you know you are about to enter a situation that naturally fills you with apprehension, try to think about happy things. The mental distraction allows you to calm yourself and relax.
While mental relaxation is important, you also need to ensure that your body posture is relaxed. You should relax your facial expression when talking to people as well. Once you practice these tricks, you will not only be able to relax but also be able to enjoy yourself even in situations that used to make you tense.

Have a Positive Outlook

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Confidence is often a reflection of your mental state. If you are optimistic and have a positive outlook on life, then you are more likely to be confident. To be positive, you must avoid being sensitive and pessimistic. You should try not to take things personally. Some people will try to bring you down simply because they feel bad about themselves, therefore, you also need to surround yourself with positive people. These people will make you feel good about yourself and bring out the best in you.

Focus on Your Strengths

Focusing on your good points is a great way to build self-confidence. In order to focus on your strengths, you must kill negative thoughts. It is especially important to be aware of your self-talk – the way you think about yourself. You should always avoid negative self-talk as it often has a negative impact on confidence.

Groom Yourself and Dress Nicely

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Looking good often translates to feeling good. When you have confidence in your appearance, your general self-esteem also increases. On the other hand, nothing kills your confidence more than a messy, dirty appearance. However, dressing nicely does not necessarily mean that you need to wear expensive clothes. All you need are clean, well-fitting clothes that show off your best features.

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Finding a TS Girlfriend Online

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The transformative hands of time and technology have become true game-changers in every aspect of human life, and the dating sphere has not been spared either. Nowadays, finding a TS girlfriend online is considerably easier than you might think. All you need to be successful in this endeavor are a few tricks and the knowledge of where to look for transsexual women. First, you must know which sites are the best for TS dating. Given the sheer number of transgender dating sites currently online, choosing the best dating site can be somewhat confusing and intimidating, especially if you are a newcomer. Luckily, this article will offer you some insightful points to point you in the right direction when searching for a TS girlfriend online.

Determine What Kind of TS Girlfriend You Want

transgender womenBefore you begin your hunt for a transgender woman on the various TS dating sites, it is important that you determine the kind of qualities that you want in a girlfriend. Are you looking for an older or a younger TS girlfriend? What common interests should she have? At this point, it is also important to establish whether you want to meet a TS woman who lives locally or if a long-distance relationship would work for you.
Beyond the above, you should also figure out whether you are only interested in an online dating arrangement or if you would want to meet the TS woman in person. You should be honest with yourself about the expectations you have and communicate these expectations to the TS woman when the time is right.

Finally, it is worth mentioning that even though online dating is convenient, people tend to embellish their better qualities at the expense of their flaws. You should be on the lookout for discrepancies when meeting someone in person to determine how truthful they were when you were just chatting.

Read the Profiles Carefully

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Reading the profiles of the TS women on the TG dating site can help you choose your potential date wisely. Make sure that you understand whether she is looking for friendship or romance. It is advisable that you spend your time on TS women who have taken the time to come up with attractive profiles because it shows they are serious and know what they want.

Check whether the profiles states the “ideal partner” she is looking for. If the profile gives some criteria or preferable traits, make sure you measure up before making your move. It is also crucial to check whether the age stated on the profile coincides with the profile picture.

Connect

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Once you have found a TS girl that you are interested in, make a move. Follow the transsexual dating site instructions for being connected. In most cases, this process begins with chatting. When you first start, take things slow. Don’t be in a hurry to state your worries or interest. You should focus on creating a rapport with the TS woman and slowly start engaging her in meaningful conversation. This will help you get to know her better and, if all goes well, lead to a date.

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Effective Tips for Feminizing Your Body Movements

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If you are an MTF trans woman, then you understand that your body movements can make or break your feminine image. This is because the way you move plays a huge role in your overall look. Luckily, there are several simple techniques that a transgender woman can use to help feminize her body movements and project a feminine image.

Dress Suitably

MTF Trans WomenAs an MTF trans woman, how you dress matters. Not only does it reflect your sense of style but also how your body moves. Wearing clothes that fit your body well helps you move in a more feminine way. When practicing different body movements, you should avoid baggy clothes. If you are used to pants or jeans, change to skirts and dresses. The way you walk and sit are very different if you are wearing a skirt. Also, skirts help your body movement appear more profound. However, short skirts should be avoided.

Be Moderate

Many transgender women make the mistake of over-exaggerating their body movements. They think they will appear to be more feminine if they display such traits even more prominently than cis women. One of the most common areas that transgender women exaggerate are their hips. Swinging your hips too much looks more awkward than sexy. To master this art without overdoing it, simply put on heels and walk normally. Walking this way will make your hips sway naturally.

Avoid Poor Body Posture

Your body posture is the foundation of all your movements. If you want to feminize your body movements, start by mimicking feminine posture. An example of poor body posture you should avoid is slouching. Many tall MTF women make the mistake of slouching to minimize their height. Also, don’t arch your back to make your butt stick out more, as you are more likely to look silly than sexy.

Mind How You Sit and Walk

MTF Trans WomenIf you have lived all your life in “male mode,” adjusting how you sit and walk can be challenging. However, that does not mean it’s impossible. As a rule of thumb, always make sure that your knees are together when seated; there is nothing that can kill your feminine posture more than sitting down with your legs apart. Also, it is important to keep your head up and your elbows in when walking. Tucking your elbows in makes your feminine movements more profound.

Stretch Out Regularly

To feminize your body movements, you must have a body that is neither tense nor tight. Improving your flexibility can be achieved by stretching regularly. Stretching out will not only improve your body movements but also help you to have a fit and healthy body.

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Choosing the Best Lingerie Styles for MTF Trans Women

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The type of lingerie you wear says a lot about you as a trans woman. In fact, there is nothing that shows off your femininity more than lingerie. Just like the old saying “different strokes for different folks,” it is understandable to have some difficulty navigating all the different types, styles, and designs available in order to find what fits you perfectly. If you are still trying to figure out which style fits you best, worry no more. This article will introduce you to a few styles so that you can pick the one that suits your personality the best.

Sexy Style

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There is nothing sexier than a woman in lingerie. If there was something sexier, it would be a woman in lingerie with high heels and a dazzling necklace. If you are the type of MTF Trans Woman who likes to feel sexy and powerful, then you should probably opt for the sexy lingerie style. This style is often punctuated with risqué details and follows the philosophy of “less is more.” Good examples of sexy lingerie you should consider buying include a red thong and fishnet stockings.

Romantic Style

The romantic lingerie style is for MTF Transsexual Women who want to feel feminine or be extremely girly. This style often includes lingerie that is embellished with fancy details, like lace and bows. To use this style to its best advantage, you should pay attention to the color of the lingerie. As a rule of thumb, go for soft, feminine colors, such as peach or pink. The romantic lingerie style is particularly advantageous for MTF women who are still struggling to embrace their femininity. Quintessential examples of lingerie that fit the romantic style include baby doll nighties, bras with lace, and ruffled panties.

Classic Style

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The classic style is a rather laidback version of lingerie. However, this does not mean that it is any less sexy. The classic style works well for women who have jaw-dropping curves. Such curves, coupled with a sexy personality, will let your femininity sparkle. The classic style also suits women who have strong personalities and for women who know their bodies. The classic style incorporates some vintage accents that fuse simplicity and sophistication together. For the classic lingerie style, choosing the right fabric is essential. It should be silky and smooth. This will ensure that you have maximum comfort during use. Good examples of the classic lingerie style include a black kimono and a satin chemise.

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In conclusion, when choosing your lingerie style, you should consider your size, shape, and the colors that suit your skin tone and preferences. From there, you can choose one or all the styles mentioned above until you find the perfect match.

A Survival Guide for Your First Date with A Transgender Woman

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The benefits of meeting a TS woman on a transgender dating site is that you’ll get an excellent opportunity to learn her personality without physical appearance getting in the way. During this time, it is important that you ask relevant questions when you chat with her online. It is especially wise to ask her what she likes and dislikes in a boyfriend. Your conversations online will help you build a rapport before going out on the first date. Knowing her personality and building trust with her is crucial for surviving your first date.
However, it is the date itself where the fun begins. Meeting a person for the first time can be a nerve-wracking experience, even for the most confident of individuals. Fortunately, in order to make sure that all goes smoothly, this article will provide a survival guide for your first date with a transgender woman.

Get Rid of the Pre-Date Nerves

While being nervous for a first date is understandable, too much nervousness can have a negative impact on your date. One way to control the nerves is simply by distracting yourself with something interesting before the date begins. If you like to hit the gym, do so a few hours before your date in order to keep pre-date jitters at bay. Reading a book can also help distract you from nervousness. The trick is to keep yourself preoccupied so that you avoid overthinking about the date. Eliminating pre-date nerves will help you feel relaxed and prepare you to have a good time when the date begins.

Prepare Accordingly

A successful first date involves some level of preparation. You must be prepared both physically and emotionally for it. In terms of physical preparation, ensure that you are well dressed. Emotional preparation includes planning the topics you want to discuss with your date. When you are well prepared, conversations will run smoothly and you will come off as charming and confident.

Arrive On Time

Being late is a total turn off for women, whether or not they are transgendered. If you must be late for any reason, make sure to call or text your date to tell them that you won’t be able to make it on time. Additionally, you should have the decency to apologize to your date and try to make up for your lateness. If she has spent her time waiting for you, then you had better be worth the wait.

Enjoy the Date

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Try as much as possible to enjoy the date. This includes flirting and trying to make your date laugh. If you find the date’s venue to be awful, don’t spend all the time complaining. This will make you come off as a negative person. At all times you should be civil, polite, and neutral. The one thing you should not do is lie. Being honest is always the best policy, although telling the truth with tact and kindness is always appreciated. As a side note, while flirting is recommended, don’t take it too far on the first date.

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Tips For Making A Long-Distance Transsexual Relationship Work

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Long-distance relationships are not for the faint of heart. Being a transsexual or endeavoring to date a transsexual is not for the faint-hearted either. Due to the bravery and dedication these people bring to the table, it should be clear that long-distance transsexual relationships can work in real life. However, this does not mean there won’t be any challenges. To make a long-distance transsexual relationships work, you must be willing to invest your time and commitment, as well as use some creativity. If you have found a match on a transgender dating site, but the only thing between the two of you is distance, do not fret.

There are ways to help you keep your long-distance transsexual relationship healthy, functional, and sexual. These tips include:

Keeping Your Word

Trust is a key ingredient in long-distance transsexual relationships. In order to keep you happy as a couple, it is important that both of you trust each other. If you have a plan to communicate on a daily or weekly basis, it is important that both of you honor that arrangement. You and your partner will only achieve stability if you create concrete plans. Concrete plans do not necessarily mean meeting physically; conversations and dates can be done virtually. For there to be unwavering trust, the two of you need to be confident that you can rely on each other.

Setting Aside Time for Each Other

Despite the distance, it is important that the two of you set aside time for each other regularly. All relationships require time and energy spent on communication. By dedicating time to each other and communicating often, both of you will be building a firm foundation for your love to stand on. Setting aside time for each other could be something as simple as a call after work every day or a simple “I love you” text before bed.

Keeping the Love Alive

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To avoid either partner being sexually frustrated, it is important that both of you keep the love alive in a physical sense as well as an emotional sense. It is perfectly fine and natural to tease each other with dirty photos and sexy messages. Keeping your sex lives active and healthy in a long-distance transsexual relationship requires a bit is creativity. One example is phone sex, though technology provides for a variety of other options. Hearing your partner moan and breath sexily while the two of you pleasure yourselves can make it seem real. And when you are reunited, make sure to spend time together intimately.

Keeping on Keeping On

In every relationship, whether local or long-distance, it is highly recommended that you use your best judgment with what feels right for you and your partner. Despite the difficulties and frustration that distance causes, you can grow as a person and as a couple with a bit of commitment, communication, and creativity.

As a final note, it is important to discuss with your partner when the distance will end. Knowing that there is a concrete conclusion to the separation is very important in a long-distance transsexual relationship because it erases doubts and creates hope for both of you.