A Survival Guide for Your First Date with A Transgender Woman

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The benefits of meeting a TS woman on a transgender dating site is that you’ll get an excellent opportunity to learn her personality without physical appearance getting in the way. During this time, it is important that you ask relevant questions when you chat with her online. It is especially wise to ask her what she likes and dislikes in a boyfriend. Your conversations online will help you build a rapport before going out on the first date. Knowing her personality and building trust with her is crucial for surviving your first date.
However, it is the date itself where the fun begins. Meeting a person for the first time can be a nerve-wracking experience, even for the most confident of individuals. Fortunately, in order to make sure that all goes smoothly, this article will provide a survival guide for your first date with a transgender woman.

Get Rid of the Pre-Date Nerves

While being nervous for a first date is understandable, too much nervousness can have a negative impact on your date. One way to control the nerves is simply by distracting yourself with something interesting before the date begins. If you like to hit the gym, do so a few hours before your date in order to keep pre-date jitters at bay. Reading a book can also help distract you from nervousness. The trick is to keep yourself preoccupied so that you avoid overthinking about the date. Eliminating pre-date nerves will help you feel relaxed and prepare you to have a good time when the date begins.

Prepare Accordingly

A successful first date involves some level of preparation. You must be prepared both physically and emotionally for it. In terms of physical preparation, ensure that you are well dressed. Emotional preparation includes planning the topics you want to discuss with your date. When you are well prepared, conversations will run smoothly and you will come off as charming and confident.

Arrive On Time

Being late is a total turn off for women, whether or not they are transgendered. If you must be late for any reason, make sure to call or text your date to tell them that you won’t be able to make it on time. Additionally, you should have the decency to apologize to your date and try to make up for your lateness. If she has spent her time waiting for you, then you had better be worth the wait.

Enjoy the Date

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Try as much as possible to enjoy the date. This includes flirting and trying to make your date laugh. If you find the date’s venue to be awful, don’t spend all the time complaining. This will make you come off as a negative person. At all times you should be civil, polite, and neutral. The one thing you should not do is lie. Being honest is always the best policy, although telling the truth with tact and kindness is always appreciated. As a side note, while flirting is recommended, don’t take it too far on the first date.

Tips For Making A Long-Distance Transsexual Relationship Work

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Long-distance relationships are not for the faint of heart. Being a transsexual or endeavoring to date a transsexual is not for the faint-hearted either. Due to the bravery and dedication these people bring to the table, it should be clear that long-distance transsexual relationships can work in real life. However, this does not mean there won’t be any challenges. To make a long-distance transsexual relationships work, you must be willing to invest your time and commitment, as well as use some creativity. If you have found a match on a transgender dating site, but the only thing between the two of you is distance, do not fret.

There are ways to help you keep your long-distance transsexual relationship healthy, functional, and sexual. These tips include:

Keeping Your Word

Trust is a key ingredient in long-distance transsexual relationships. In order to keep you happy as a couple, it is important that both of you trust each other. If you have a plan to communicate on a daily or weekly basis, it is important that both of you honor that arrangement. You and your partner will only achieve stability if you create concrete plans. Concrete plans do not necessarily mean meeting physically; conversations and dates can be done virtually. For there to be unwavering trust, the two of you need to be confident that you can rely on each other.

Setting Aside Time for Each Other

Despite the distance, it is important that the two of you set aside time for each other regularly. All relationships require time and energy spent on communication. By dedicating time to each other and communicating often, both of you will be building a firm foundation for your love to stand on. Setting aside time for each other could be something as simple as a call after work every day or a simple “I love you” text before bed.

Keeping the Love Alive

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To avoid either partner being sexually frustrated, it is important that both of you keep the love alive in a physical sense as well as an emotional sense. It is perfectly fine and natural to tease each other with dirty photos and sexy messages. Keeping your sex lives active and healthy in a long-distance transsexual relationship requires a bit is creativity. One example is phone sex, though technology provides for a variety of other options. Hearing your partner moan and breath sexily while the two of you pleasure yourselves can make it seem real. And when you are reunited, make sure to spend time together intimately.

Keeping on Keeping On

In every relationship, whether local or long-distance, it is highly recommended that you use your best judgment with what feels right for you and your partner. Despite the difficulties and frustration that distance causes, you can grow as a person and as a couple with a bit of commitment, communication, and creativity.

As a final note, it is important to discuss with your partner when the distance will end. Knowing that there is a concrete conclusion to the separation is very important in a long-distance transsexual relationship because it erases doubts and creates hope for both of you.

Tips For Being The Feminine Transsexual Woman You Are

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The transitioning process for a Trans Woman is very unique. To some extent, there is no right or wrong way to transition. Transitioning is an individual process; there is no “cookie cutter” approach. However, regardless of the road taken in the journey of transition, transsexuals always have to go the extra mile to enhance their feminine image. While this can make transitioning a challenging and expensive process, it also makes the results all the more rewarding when all is said and done.
Whereas some transgender women choose to undergo Sex Reassignment Surgery (SRS), others simply opt for Hormone Replacement Therapy. However, regardless of the road chosen, there are some tips that can help transsexual women embrace femininity to the fullest. Some of these tips include:

Fashion

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Transsexual women should always strive to improve their sense of style. The first step is choosing fashionable attire with respect to their body size and age. A good way to keep abreast with the latest fashion trends is by reading magazines. Fashion magazines will not only inform transgender women of the latest fashions in town but also indicate where to buy the clothes. Looking at what other women are wearing on the streets can also reveal the newest fashion trends.

Makeup

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Knowing how to apply the right makeup for your skin tone, skin type, and bone structure is crucial. Many transgender women struggle with putting on makeup. It takes time and practice to learn how to do it appropriately and properly. YouTube videos can be a rich source of information on how to apply makeup. As an additional tip, sticking to softer colors at the beginning can help a new makeup user avoid major malfunctions.

Voice

Finding your feminine voice can be a very tricky part of the transition process. Luckily, there are a few tricks that can be used to add a spice of femininity to one’s voice. Transsexual women that have a manly voice should breathe from the stomach and then speak. This helps by getting rid of vibrations in the chest, which can contribute to a deeper, stronger voice. Another trick for helping transgender women sound more feminine is singing. Singing in a calm, high voice can help teach the voice how to sound more feminine.

Eyebrows and Shaving

In additional to makeup, transsexual women should learn how to pluck their eyebrows because it instantly enhances the femininity of their face, creating structure and balance. When shaving, it is important to take the time to get everything right. While being consistent with shaving is important for avoiding stubble, it is equally important to be gentle so as not to irritate the skin. To completely get rid of stubble, laser hair removal, electrolysis, or waxing is recommended.

Aside from the above, confidence should be part of the transitioning process. Transgender women should always walk with their head high because it helps display their feminine features. Being loved for who you really are is also part of feeling more feminine and beautiful; therefore, transsexual women can and should visit online transgender dating site to try their luck.

A Guide to Dating Transgender Women 

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Dating a transgender woman is not easy; it is neither for the faint-hearted nor the lecherous. Dating a transgender woman is reserved for brave men, men who are resolute and honest with their intentions. If you are one of these brave souls, then you understand the importance of doing your homework before dating a transgender woman. This homework includes researching the nuts and bolts of a relationship with a trans woman, which may be difficult as true and practical information is often hard to come by. Fortunately, if you have been wondering what it would be like to date a trans woman or if you have started dating one and need a guide, the following information will be very useful.

Research

Before you begin your search for a trans woman on a Transgender Dating Site, it is important to research and understand the various aspects of transgender people. This will help prepare you for what to expect and lessen the burden of your future partner. Dating a trans woman demands mutual compatibility and common interests just like any other relationship, and the two can only be found after painstaking and thorough research. Improving your knowledge about transgender people and what they go through will help you dispel some of the myths that surround transsexualism.

Avoid Transsexuality Talk During Your Dates

Even though you might be curious, never make the mistake of delving too deep into the subject of trans-sexuality. Just as curiosity killed the cat, it could also kill your relationship with a trans woman. It is possible that the subject might pop up later, but in the beginning it is better to err on the side of caution and steer away from potentially awkward subjects. Even if she initiates the subject it would be best to proceed carefully. However, when she expresses willingness to talk about trans-sexuality, listen keenly and without judgment. As with all personal matters, you should understand that most transgender women are uncomfortable thinking about their sex/gender/surgical state, let alone talking about it.

First Impression Matters

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If you are dating a transgender woman, then you clearly understand the elaborate sense of fashion they have and the effort they place into their looks. Transgender women do their best to look womanly and attractive. You should be appreciative of your companion’s appearance and also complement their efforts by putting effort into your dress and maintenance as well. This is particularly crucial on your first date when you are hoping to make the best impression possible. Do not expect to impress a transgender woman if you show up looking like a dog’s dinner.

Be a Gentleman

Some transgender women are even more feminine than their cisgender counterparts are. Therefore, you should endeavor to treat them as you would any other woman by acting like a gentleman and treating them with care and respect. Don’t let sex be the main focus of your conversation, as focusing on sexual talk might signal that you are only interested in sex. Engage your date in meaningful conversation, listen when she talks, and smile so that she feels safe and comfortable. Good things happen when a woman feels safe with a man.

Femininity Guide for Transgender Women

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Transsexuals have a yearning to live life to the fullest. This is the reason they are “reborn” when they get sex reassignment surgery. However, when they get a new lease on life thanks to the transsexual surgery, many transgender women are faced with the challenge of how to be a feminine. Women have a deeply ingrained need to look elegant and fashionable. There is a lot that goes into making a woman look stylish. For example, men often find a woman’s handbag to be a puzzling conundrum due to the variety of items that are found inside. Though clothes, accessories, and cosmetics cannot be ruled out as contributing to femininity, the following three points play a pivotal role in a woman’s life.

Understanding femininity

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As mentioned above, femininity is more than what one wears or puts on their face. Femininity stems from how one carries their body. Words that aptly and precisely capture femininity would be, “your body makes you feel sexy, your face makes you pretty, your smile makes you gorgeous, but it’s your mind that ices the cake by making you beautiful!” Therefore, it would suffice to say that no amount of money in this world could buy femininity because it is largely a disposition.

Some transgender women are at times reduced to employing “femininity coaches” so as to improve their femininity. However, while the hardest task for being a female is this aspect of understanding femininity, it must to be shouldered by the Transgender Woman, regardless of the cost of hiring a coach.

Your movement and voice

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Women do not walk or move slovenly; there is grace in their movements. Transgender women have to abide by such decorous body movement so as to stay in touch with their feminine side. As a transgender woman, if you do not want people to stare at you every time you saunter into a room, then you have to buckle down and train your body movements to mirror those of a female. At times, women don’t walk; they gracefully slide. Women don’t take a seat by dropping into a chair; they gently sit down. Women don’t sit down with their legs apart; the legs have to be neatly closed together.

When it comes to the voice, it has to be gentle like a falling feather. You can read magazines and watch videos like ‘Develop a Female Voice’ by Melanie Ann Phillips. You can also practice how to speak like a woman with a friend who is honest and unbiased. Whilst training how to speak and move like a woman, learn to constantly smile because it brings out your feminine side.

What you carry in a handbag

Transgender women find themselves carrying handbags, something that was probably foreign to them initially. Some examples of things that are a “must” in a woman’s handbag include the following: hand sanitizer, feminine hygiene products (tampons), deodorant, a compact mirror, lip products, cash, safety pins, a notebook and a pen.

Dos and Don’ts When Dating a Transgender Woman

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If you have finally decided to take the plunge and date a transgender woman, then there are some things you need to learn so as to make your relationship worthwhile. First of all, dating a transgender woman is no walk in the park. Your friends and family might not be accepting of such a move. However, the popular adage “love conquers all” holds water, because if you can make a relationship successful, others will eventually come around or you will learn how to deal with those who don’t understand. Below are some of the Do’s and Don’ts of dating a transgender woman

Dos

Be at peace with your decision

Deciding whether you really want to date a Transgender woman should top your priority list in the Dos of dating a transgender woman. This is vital because the journey of dating a transgender woman can be bumpy. You have to accept that dating a transgender woman does not make you gay.

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Take good care of yourself

Dating a transgender woman is akin to dating a not transgender one. The need to look good cannot be understated. Always dress modestly and hit the gym if needed for you to be more attractive to your transgender lady.

Stand up for her

As mentioned earlier, society has many prejudices, and there is much discrimination against transgender woman. Men who date them have also received the same treatment at times. You might even be told that you are not a ‘real’ man because you are dating a ‘fake’ woman. However, you should develop a tough skin and always defend your transgender woman against any form of discrimination.

Treat your transgender woman with respect

As society continues to bask in the bliss of ignorance – and consequently make the lives of transgender women hell – you should endeavor to love your woman with all your heart. Just because she is a transgender woman, does not make her any less of a human. Transgender women are worthy of love and respect.

Compliment her

Transgender women always strive to look their best. You can complement her efforts by simply complimenting her looks. Also compliment her body, but make sure it’s moderate so that you don’t come across as an amorous pervert.

Don’ts

Don’t be too curious

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Just like how curiosity is hazardous for cats, the same can apply to you if you are dating a Transgender women. Do not assume that just because you are in a relationship with her that it gives you the authority to question her about her past. Be gentle with her. She will tell you all you need to know when she feels safe enough to do so.

Don’t be amorous

Transgenders have been known to have voluptuous bodies that make men drool like fools. However, if you are dating a transgender, no matter how hot she is, you should never seem to be hell-bent on having sex with her. Transgender women have been through a lot and are therefore very cautious before inviting you to their bedrooms. Your patience might be put to the test, but if it triumphs, great sex awaits you!

Dealing with Emotions in a Transgender Relationship

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It is quite a challenge going into a transgender relationship without investing a great deal of your emotions. After all, how could you enjoy love, one of the most beautiful feelings, without doing so? Well, even with such an investment, you would still want to take care for fear that you might get hurt when you finally break up. Furthermore, you would want to guard against possible emotional abuse from your partner or potential partner. Since no relationship is without its share of challenges, you would want to learn how to deal with your emotions, or those of your partner, when problems start showing. In the section that follows, you will learn some important tips to guide you in difficult situations.

Dealing with a nagging partner

You want to avoid going into a romantic relationship with a partner who nags constantly. Not only will the relationship be draining, but it can also be unhealthy in the long-run. Chances are that the relationship will end at some point if you do not find a way to address the issue or underlying issues. In addition, you will be dealing with an unsatisfied partner throughout the relationship. However, if you are in a relationship with someone who nags already, you do not want his or her actions and words to deprive you of happiness and enjoyment of life. You should discuss the issues and set limits that your partner should respect. Respecting each other’s limits will help your relationship grow.

Dealing with an overly critical partner

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A partner who is constantly criticizing will always find the opportunity to raise guilt in your daily life. This eats into your self-esteem and self-worth. However, you need to protect yourself if you are to grow and thrive in the relationship. One way to do so is to accept and learn from constructive criticism while brushing off the negative. However, you still need to maintain respect for one another if you are to succeed in your efforts. Better still, you can let your partner know that he or she is being unfair and is hurting your feelings when engaging in constant criticism. It may be a tall order, but you should try. Another option is to seek a relationship counselor for help.

Dealing with self-obsession

Some people, when in a relationship, forget about their partner’s needs and think only of themselves. This can be a huge hindrance to the growth of the relationship as one partner will feel slighted by the lack of attention. To deal with such a situation, you should reevaluate if love is still guiding your relationship. If that is not the case then you should discuss the situation to find a lasting solution, and if a satisfactory conclusion cannot be reached then you can consider separation.