Tips for Before, During, and After the First Date with a Transgender Woman

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After your long search for a transgender girlfriend finally bears fruit, your next move should be to ask her out on a date. Of course, you want to make sure that you impress her during the first date, but this is also the easiest time to mess things up. To boost your chances of a second date, you must do some pre-date planning and preparation. Getting things right during the first date will certainly impress your transgender girlfriend. Below are some valuable tips that will help you have a successful first date.

Give Her Options for the Date Venue

Before the date, you should show your transgender girlfriend that you are thoughtful. Giving her a few options for the date venue will show her that you want her to be comfortable on your first date. Ideally you would come up with at least three options and let her decide which one is most convenient. As a side note, make sure you choose places relatively near her residence so that she feels safe.

Stay Within Your Budget

As a gentleman, you are expected to pay for the first date. Therefore, when you choose the date venues, make sure it is a place you can afford. There is no need to go overboard on a first date; it is reasonable to stay within a comfortable budget. After you have created some rapport with your transgender girlfriend, don’t be ashamed to tell her that you have a limited budget. While you shouldn’t expect her to foot the bill on your first date, you can split the bill or alternate paying for each other later.

Remember Your Chats

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To keep the conversation rolling, you should always try to keep the content of previous chats in the back of your mind. This will help you know which topics your transgender girlfriend is comfortable talking about. If you do want to try a new topic, make sure that it is an interesting one. As a rule of thumb, avoid subjects that are controversial or very personal on the first date, like sex, as they might send a wrong signal to your partner or make her feel uncomfortable.

Ask for a Second Date

If the first date goes well, don’t hesitate to tell your transgender women that you would really love to see her again. If she enjoyed your company too, she would definitely say yes. Being interesting and a little mysterious is a good way to make her want to know you more. It is also important that you make her laugh.

Ask Her to Text You When She Gets Home

Asking her to shoot you a quick text letting you know she got home safely is a quick, easy gesture that tells her that you genuinely care. You can also use this opportunity to thank her for the date and wish her good night.

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How to Embrace Your Femininity without Comparing Yourself to Other Ciswomen

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There is no cookie cutter path to become a confident MTF Trans Woman. You will at times find yourself stumbling in your quest to embrace your femininity. When you stumble, find yourself envious, or compare yourself to other cis-woman, know that you are not alone. Many MTF Trans Women fall into the pit of comparing themselves with cis-women.
It is often said that comparison is the death of joy. In fact, it is one of the surest ways to lower your self-esteem. But how do you stop comparing yourself to others? Below are some valuable tips that will offer you an answer.

Realize that Comparing Yourself is Destructive

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While comparing yourself to others is a fairly normal behavior, it can be self-destructive in many situations. This is because each person is their own worst critic, meaning when we compare ourselves to others, we tend to judge ourselves more harshly. The first step to stopping this behavior is by consciously realizing that it is destructive. You may always find cis-women to be pretty, but their beauty has nothing to do with yours. You are beautiful in your own way separate from them.

Focus on Yourself

For you to make positive strides on your journey to embrace your femininity, you should compare yourself only to yourself. When you look at yourself in the mirror, smile more vibrantly than you did yesterday. Think about what you have achieved and all your potential for the future. When you compare yourself to yourself instead of other cis-women, you will be more appreciative of your uniqueness. Additionally, this process helps you feel good about yourself without necessarily having to think less of others.

Be Kind and Polite

The way you treat others often reflects the way you feel about yourself. As a result, showing compassion for yourself allows you to be more compassionate towards others and vice versa. If you tend to criticize other people, you will likely be more critical of yourself. However, if you are kind to others, you will almost certainly be kind to yourself.

Focus on the Positives

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Every person has flaws. A guaranteed way to magnify your flaws out of proportion is by comparing yourself with other people. People tend to present the best of themselves to the outside world both in person and on social media. You are likely comparing your flaws with the best the other person has to offer; it is not a fair comparison. Instead of comparing yourself with other people, try to focus on the positive aspects of yourself and your life. Make it a habit to think positively about yourself and others.

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